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    jingfunny is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Talk to a female in a restaurant

    I went to a noodle restaurant this noon.It was a small restaurant. Two middle-aged women worked there. When I was about to finish, a lady parked a car in front of the restaurant and came into the restaurant. She was going to eat in the restaurant. Before she came in, I was the only one customer in this restaurant. I stole some glances at her. She was not super beautiful, but still sexually attractive to some extent. She also took a look at me a couple of times. I wanted to talk to her, but I didn't know what to say. Since I finished my meal, I paid my bill and "naturally" left. I am wondering if I meet the situation next time, what can I say to a lady?

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    Default Re: Talk to a female in a restaurant

    I guess you have to weigh up what kind of a person she might be, which is difficult in a short space of time. You could hope she comes back to the restaurant again I suppose.

    You can try a direct quick approach by introducing yourself to her and asking her out on the spot 'I had to come up and say hi...blah blah blah...would you like to grab a coffee sometime?' There have been plenty of times Ive seen a girl I liked and knew I probably would not see her again, so without any rapport I straight up asked them out. They will usually say yes if you have conviction (because they can still make a fair judgement from your looks, body language and the confidence or intent in what you say) and give you their number. You don't want to bother them too much by crowding their meal or sitting down 'can I join you' with them. Simply by having the confidence to approach, no matter what, you dhv to a girl.

    They will usually give you the same answer you're going to get later anyway because they are forced to. a) Sorry I have a boyfriend/husband b) Im busy at the moment sorry. No thanks (not interested) c) I'm not sure of my schedule but here's my number (potentially interested but wants to gain more rapport) d) You always come up to girls like this? (she is not saying a or b so assume c). e) Ok sure (she accepts you on principle.)

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    Default Re: Talk to a female in a restaurant

    what about if say you were sitting down already with food (i assume you're eating), and as she finishes up ordering, pretty much just say "hey you, come join me, all the other tables are taken by everyone else here (humour intended - because it's empty)" and essentially it's an insta date---although i'm not sure if it conveys too much interest right off the bat

    thoughts?


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