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    Default To pick up a girl living in the same building

    I got a girl's phone number. She lives in the same building. I'm wondering, if I ask her out, what can I set up? A cup of coffee, a dinner? I talked to her a few minutes and I gave her a good first impression. She thought I was sweet. My concern is, if I go out with her for a long time, for example 30 or even longer, I don't think I can maintain my sweetness/humor. Then she will be disappointed in me and find I'm not as sweet or humorous as she previously thought. Also, if I set up a coffee talk, she and I may walk together to the coffee shop, do you think it is kind of unnatural? What are your thoughts?

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    Default Re: To pick up a girl living in the same building

    You need to work on your confidence for sure.
    You're already expecting yourself to fail, which will most likely become a self-fulfilling prophecy of sorts.

    So, start by focusing on your strengths instead of your weaknesses.

    But, as far as what you could set up?
    The answer is "anything".

    The more "fun" & interactive it is, the better it will be. Try to think of something different that most guys would totally overlook.
    Those are the "dates" that usually end up being a lot more fun & entertaining than you expect.

    I've taken girls out to do things like: Laser tag, a shooting range, rock-climbing walls, etc...
    Those were awesome! The girls had a blast & thought it was really cool, because they were totally different than the "predictable" type dates. (Coffee, movies, dinners.. & so on)


    Think creatively.


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    Default Re: To pick up a girl living in the same building

    i have to agree with t-mal, you are overthinking this, you need to man up and take her out, if you think you will have trouble keeping convorsation then make it a short date, or go to a place with lots of people (you can comment about whats going on around you if you run out of things to say) coffea in the mourning would be great, you can make an ftc if you need to. good luck!


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