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    jimbob is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Asking a lady friend out who's 6 years older than me

    Im 21, shes 27. We've been friends for roughly a year now, she hasn't done anything to indicate im in the friend zone, she never mentions a bf, and iv always been a bit flirtatious with her, we get along pretty good. The pickle that im having (on top of me being a shy pussy) is that we've ate out numerous times on casual occasions and I want to officially ask her out and make it clear that its a date without using the word "date". Like i don't wanna say "Would you like to go out on a date with me" cause that seems cheesy right? But i think im gonna take her out to lunch and maybe just ask her at lunch and say "hey theres this good restaurant blah blah, you should let me take you there sometime". Think that would be clear enough? How would you guys word it/do it?

    (btw i dont expect her to say yes, i want to do this regardless because i have little experience asking girls out and i figure this is really good practice especially if i can handle the rejection)

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    Default Re: Asking a lady friend out who's 6 years older than me

    If you don't care of the outcome (which you should never) then this is a perfect time for you to use the word "date". Guys are so scared of this but honestly, this is what keeps them in the friend zone. It's not cheesy. You MUST show your intentions. At this point you've gone out with her a bunch so it has to be clear it's going to be a date. If you try and do it smoothly and just setup a romantic night or something she will be thrown off. Don't be afraid to just say it.

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    Cool Re: Asking a lady friend out who's 6 years older than me

    I don't understand the need for you to define things...???? Communication on every level is the most important component in a relationship...

    If you want to go out with her ask,do you think calling it a date lets her know your intentions? How about asking " How do you feel about us getting a lil closer?"

    If she says "in what way?"

    You say " A more intimate way."

    I don't know the history, but you don't wanna be wondering and you can't expect her to make a move with out a lil initiation...


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