Re: How I handle approach anxiety
That's great and all that we are so aware of this but did anyone stop and consider a rising trend here? We are all pretty well versed on Night Game. But how versed are we on our day game and why do we almost never use those Day Game venues as examples? The answer is simple. Day Game is a b!tch. My aa for Day Game this year was out of this world. I was up in the Club and Bars this year strutting my stuff and hollering at the girls who be checking my stuff, who be checking my stuff but as soon as I went to the Water Park, Outdoor Malls, Holiday Events I was like a whimpering little puppy. Happying wondering around but scared senseless of the unknown if I approached the female I felt like death would crawl into my throat.
Well next year I am going to conquer my Day Game AA the easy way, by forcing myself to approach and just thrusting myself in there. That's how I learned Night Game. I thrust myself in and learned much of what I know on the fly. So I don't need a bunch of methods or anything just a good opener, a way to close and a little Fluff talk, kino, a timebridge and maybe a insta-date and I am good to go. I think we are slacking here in the Day Game department because we are too concerned about how we look if we open that Hot Chick with some Old People, or if we open the Hot Chick in broad daylight might cause a large amount of attention due to it being abnormal activity for most normal behavioral patterns we portray. The "norm" during the day for most men is to drool over hot women but never have the guts to actually approach. Tons of natural gamers can run Night Game but Day Game? That's for the studs and that's why our approaches must be unique.
As I said I am super excited for Dark Souls II so think of it like this...In Dark Souls II the objective is to fear every encounter whether it is a troll or a undead soldier due to the nature of the game being so difficult.
The Game is no different we would fare far better with greater pings and greaters results if we feared every encounter with women. For instance my last encounter with a female I was too full of myself and failed to see the beauty in the Set and just totally lost track of why I got into this thing to begin with. So remember those words "Fear every encounter" especially when it comes to Day Game next year I will not try to start off plowing but start off pinging and get the most out of each ping. Then maybe we can learn quality over quantity and run our routines of Push-Pull and Hot & Cold better when we are not so distracted by ourselves.
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.