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Thread: Getting some IOI's, but resistance to touch?

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    Default Getting some IOI's, but resistance to touch?

    So there's this girl I share a stand with in my Orchestra class. I noticed she tends to play with her hair when I'm talking to her, she often initiates conversation, etc. However, she pulls away even at the most innocent seeming touch. Any tips on how to proceed from here would be appreciated

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    Default Re: Getting some IOI's, but resistance to touch?

    go for the most unnoticable touch possible, lightly touch her hand while handing her something, accidently poke her with you bow (the thing you run across the strings of a violen) think of creative ways to barely touch her, also amp your flirting to the next level, she may not be as attracted to you as you think

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    Default Re: Getting some IOI's, but resistance to touch?

    Thanks man. I'm definitely going to start with that and then try to escalate a little bit. If she still put up resistance I think I'm just going to abandon it

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    Default Re: Getting some IOI's, but resistance to touch?

    yes, be respectfull if she tells you to stop, she may be an emotional shipwreck. you may be better off to leave her alone

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    Default Re: Getting some IOI's, but resistance to touch?

    I had a girl one time that was so unresponsive to any touch but later learned by her friend that she had been raped.

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    Default Re: Getting some IOI's, but resistance to touch?

    I usually make fun of them for being that way... like a neg but more of a tease.

    Ex... you laugh at something and lightly tap her on the shoulder ... if she pulls back, say something like,"oh man im sorry, i didnt know u had leprosy. Thanks for pulling away." Smile as u say it. If she laughs, jokingly tell her to "lighten up" and grab both her arms and shake her whole body for a sec or two... just for fun.

    Or u could try high fives or poking her with your finger from behind. She wont see it coming so her reaction may tell u how she feels (relief that it was u vs. a don't touch me loser look)
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    Default Re: Getting some IOI's, but resistance to touch?

    I'll definitely try to neg her, I've been being a bit passive lately, not really talking to her much, but I think I'll try to get back. Thanks for the tips everybody!

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    Default Re: Getting some IOI's, but resistance to touch?

    When it comes to Kino, you want to make sure to move it slowly. Remember: two steps forward, one step back.

    If you haven't established you being a very touchy person at all, then it might not be easy for you to start touching her all of a sudden. A good way to begin to scalage is when you two are laughing touch her slightly on the elbow or playfully hit her.

    Look up Love Drop's Kino Escalation on Youtube and you'll find a good workshop. I can't post a link here because I haven't made enough posts, but its a pretty good workshop.

    Good Luck


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