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Thread: Number closing and Middle Game

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    Default Number closing and Middle Game

    Having a problem with getting a girl's number immediately. Some of my friends say that I approach alot but I know that I have trouble asking for numbers because I'm afraid they will say no. However if I see them again I usually get their number.

    I want to get their numbers more often and quicker and dive into middle game slash texting and phone and end up in my bedroom waaaay quicker. I need quicker game, how do I do that? Ive done it a few times. Some women say things like I won't see you again and I wonder if that is a sign that they want my number.

    Anything to close quicker, also I've been using the anticipation excuse which works sometimes but sometimes the feeling is lost. I've seen it happen before, I don't want relationships with these girls I really just want sex and social proof from them (friendship). I could care less about relationships.

    I hang with some guys that are pretty good at this stuff but I'm not a pretty boy so I know that my game has to be different. However, I am having fun with them but I want to get better at escalating and figuring out these signs that my buddies talk about.

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    Default Re: Number closing and Middle Game

    My inner monologue reading this...

    Quote Originally Posted by hellsing3000 View Post
    Having a problem with getting a girl's number immediately. Alright, cool, a clear sticking point... Some of my friends say that I approach alot good, good... but I know that I have trouble asking for numbers because I'm afraid they will say no. Hmm, I might have something for that... However if I see them again I usually get their number. Soooo college game I take it?...

    I want to get their numbers more often and quicker no... and dive into middle game Nope... slash texting and phone NO, NO, NO... and end up in my bedroom waaaay quicker. Aaaaaalright - time to start inner monologuing this... *clicks to the top, continues reading* I need quicker game, how do I do that? Uhhh, more on that later... Ive done it a few times. Some women say things like I won't see you again and I wonder if that is a sign that they want my number. It is.

    Anything to close quicker, Again, let's talk about this... also I've been using the anticipation excuse The what? I'm not familiar... which works sometimes but sometimes the feeling is lost. I've seen it happen before, I don't want relationships with these girls I really just want sex and social proof from them (friendship). I could care less about relationships. Alright, you know your goals, that's good...

    I hang with some guys that are pretty good at this stuff but I'm not a pretty boy so I know that my game has to be different. Lucky for you (and me) attracting women is like 10% looks and 90% game... However, I am having fun with them but I want to get better at escalating and figuring out these signs that my buddies talk about.
    First, about all this quick game - that'll kill you in the crib. If you are wanting to take things up a notch then girls will pick up on that and it'll blow you out. You open because she caught your attention - not because you want to sleep with her. You dhv because it's entertaining - not because you want to sleep with her. You Isolate her because she has qualified herself for you - not because you want to sleep with her. You go on a date because you'd like to know more about her because you two are vibing - not because you want to sleep with her. And then you've been escalating Kino this whole time because you just touch people when you talk - not because you want to sleep with her. And you sleep with her "because the moment just happened" - not because you want to sleep with her.
    The game is about getting girls to chase you because you are a high-value male who enjoys the company of women, and you end up getting laid because it's enjoyable - not because you want to sleep with her.
    Savy?

    As for this fear of rejection, here's my technique: get used to it. That's not a tough-love football coach type thing tho. I mean actively decide that you are going to approach a woman with the intent of getting rejected specifically so you can show yourself it isn't the end of the world. Facing the fear... like Harry does in HP7DH.
    Try these almost lines that almost guarantee a lighthearted rejection:
    http://www.puaforums.com/pua-openers/13817-elaborated-cheesy-pickup-lines.html
    Also try this - little secret: I like it better than mine
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-approach-women/16315-strive-rejected.html

    As for getting her number to get to text game being your goal... text game has two phases: (1) before you've closed - setting up dates, (2) after you've closed - building comfort/keeping her interested.
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-girl/12724-intent-texting-doing-right.html
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-girl/5607-gunsnglorys-ultimate-texting-guide.html
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-girl/13034-texting-dos-donts-conversational-bible.html

    As for your buddies, here's a few tips on talking to women
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-flirt/3736-simple-art-conversation.html
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-girls/16015-autismus-conversationalist-trilogy-deux.html
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-girls/15543-guide-dhv-autismus-conversationalist-trilogy-eine.html

    Then here's a few ways to pull the trigger on the kiss
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-girl/16051-kiss-gambits-list-em.html

    Aaaaaand here's a system of getting from k-close to f-close
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-flirt/12002-full-kino-system-vin-dicarlo.html
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    Default Re: Number closing and Middle Game

    Some women say things like I won't see you again and I wonder if that is a sign that they want my number.
    That's a massive hint, for closing numbers in general, I would sound genuine in the fact I want to get to know her better, something simple like: "Hey, we've been talking for a while and you seem cool but I also think there's more to you. Tell you what give me your number and we can get a coffee/drink and talk some more." That is probably the simplest way of getting a number during both day game/night game. Also Sauve Kinos 95% Number Close gambit is very useful.

    Heres the link:http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...ber-close.html
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