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    Default Is AGE a factor?

    This is a question a lot of guys ask themselves...
    I know, because it was a question I had for a while.

    But the simple answer is "No.... & maybe".

    I'll try to make this explanation brief:

    Age is only a factor if you make it one.
    I'm just over 40 yrs old.... But I've had several dates/hookups with girls who were between 25 & 35 yrs old this past Spring/Summer.
    (I didn't lie about my age either.)

    When the topic came up, I immediately framed it as me being more experienced in life & more mature than guys younger than I am. I also mentioned that I don't usually date girls under 35 because, they're usually immature.
    (Doing that caused the girls to start qualifying themselves to me & trying to explain how they were more mature & better than most girls their age.)

    So, instead of them looking at me as being "too old", they were worried that I thought they'd be too young.
    (Simple reverse psychology in a sense.)

    I've seen several recent posts from guys who are 2 or 3 years younger than girls they're interested in.
    My advice is this: Don't worry about a 2-3 year age difference EVER!

    Be confident, fun & interesting! That's all that matters.

    But, for you guys who may be closer to MY age, My advice is this:
    Don't worry about the age difference!

    Also- some girls prefer older guys. So that can be a huge advantage.

    Here's the thing: Most of you here on the forums are completely surprised when you find out I'm 40+ yrs old.

    Why?
    Because I don't make a big deal about it.
    I use my experience & wisdom as a positive thing; and I can relate to people of all ages.
    The same approach goes for meeting women.

    Stop worrying about whether you're too young or too old.... (or even too short, too fat, too ugly... etc.)

    Just be the most fun / most interesting guy in the room.



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    Default Re: Is AGE a factor?

    I have the opposite problem...I'm a young guy who wants older women (30s and 40s). And I almost always get a line about "You're young enough to be my stepson" etc. People have told me lines to use but they never seem to work. Do you know a good strategy to combat this?

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    Default Re: Is AGE a factor?

    This is definitely, without a doubt, one of my biggest obstacles. At 21 and in my junior year, it's a weird power dynamic. I shoot high but can never seem to topple 5 years. She just rattles my frame. I'll be glad when I'm passed this stage in my life :P
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    Default Re: Is AGE a factor?

    Oh, I love being young but it makes game a pain in the ass especially if you look young. I've been having some limited success (albeit in online game) in getting women to just ignore it but when they bring it up, I'm sunk. I'll msg you the relevant thread if you want.

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    Default Re: Is AGE a factor?

    This isn't really a problem I have often. I usually find myself gaming 21-24 year old girls and I'm only 19. I can't get drinks here in the states though so a couple times I've gamed ladies that look old enough to be my mother on purpose so she can pretend she is my mother and get me a drink Haha. One thing leads to another, you know how itgoes. But on both pccasions I wanted the age gap and I was raised to be a gentleman and taught how to respect a lady so that was kind of easy for me and since I wanted the age gap it didn't really throw me off
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Is AGE a factor?

    I have had problems with this for years. Now in my early forties, I worry about approaching women younger in case I come across as creepy or something. I need to find a way to get over it I guess.

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    Default Re: Is AGE a factor?

    Quote Originally Posted by RedHeat View Post
    I have had problems with this for years. Now in my early forties, I worry about approaching women younger in case I come across as creepy or something. I need to find a way to get over it I guess.
    Bro, I'm 37 and the average age I date is about 24. I love it and they love it. Don't be worried at all. And for some weird reason that I don't understand really young chicks 18 to 20 have been eye f***ing the hell out of me the past month, like literally staring anyway it's all in your head, good game trumps all.

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    Default Re: Is AGE a factor?

    Quote Originally Posted by urbancowboy View Post
    I have the opposite problem...I'm a young guy who wants older women (30s and 40s). And I almost always get a line about "You're young enough to be my stepson" etc. People have told me lines to use but they never seem to work. Do you know a good strategy to combat this?
    You guys need to exaggerate the Alpha. More confidence, more sexuality and when she attempts to disqualify you, turn it back on her.

    She says: You are just to young.

    You say: Damn..that's too bad for you. and keep on sarging like it never happened.

    She says: Psshtt, what would I do with a pup your age.

    You say: "Well, I was hoping we could draw on your....experience but it's ok, I'm very capable of taking the lead." Keep on sarging like it never happened.

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    Default Re: Is AGE a factor?

    I've always looked older than I actually am and in my experience when I was talking with girls and they found out my true age and the fact I was younger than them, sometimes some of them seemed a little turned off by it. However this was far before coming across PUAs and the game.

    Kino is right. If you are truly Alpha and confident, age should not be a factor.
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    Default Re: Is AGE a factor?

    In my 20s I have always had older girls as the younger ones seemed to immature. At 30 I was dating a 45yr old Milf!
    Now at 36 my minimum is 28 max 32! Age differences were never a problem tough my last ex (she was 12 yrs younger) said that I am too intelligent for her... she meant that I was to experienced!

    If you have your Game together age is not a problem!


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