There's an event that this girl already said that she wanted to go with me to, but there's like 6 possible days that we could go. Should I ask her which day works best for her or should I say something like "does Friday at 7:30 work for you"? I can basically go on any of the days. I just afraid that if I let her pick the day it'll seem like my life revolves around her too much or that I'm giving up power. Any advice would be great. thanks.