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    Default Need help to talk to girl in class

    Hey, so in my programming class there's this really cute girl that I'm attracted to, and I've caught her looking at me many times, so one day I sat next to her in class (she was with her guy friends, they are all guys in that class because there are not many girls in engineering) and I talked to both her and her friends but I could not change the topic to something not school related, and the guys seem to like this girl but I've gotten to the point that I am positive that she likes me, since every time she leaves the classroom she looks back at me and all that, I have also caught her looking at me several times, when I sat next to her she would not stop touching her hair, usually she always leaves a left handed spot next to her (I'm left handed) but there's this guy who always seats on it because he gets to the class before I do (which sucks). One thing I did once is that I was studying at this study room and she was there with her friends and her two friends left so I went up to her and talked to her introduced myself but she had a midterm so I didn't stay for too long instead I went back to where I back saying I had to get back to study and so should she. Since I did that is when she started leaving that left spot next to her and I can tell by now she likes me, but I haven't been able to talk to her again because she's always with all those guys so its harder for me to approach and not to be cocky I'm better looking than them just don't know how to approach to her when they are around or how to talk to her again, but she's giving me signs that she's also attracted to me...anyways any advice on what to do about this? I'm actually a really outgoing guy but when I'm attracted to someone it's harder for me to be like that like on this case...I need some advice on what to do about this, thanks.

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    Default Re: Need help to talk to girl in class

    First tip break ya text up its super hard to read and easy to get lost lol

    Her names not Cydney by any chance is it? lol

    Now the reason she is giving you ioi's is beacause youve already shown to her that your not like other guys...

    all the rest are flocking to her but you aren't... thats curious to her,...

    so now shes interested in whether you notice her... thats why she looks back at you when she leaves...



    How can i get her into a conversation that lasts longer than 5mins?


    well talking about school has been done but you can use it to start another topic...

    you see her sitting alone... now you have no reason to be afraid to approach because you are not a stranger...

    she should be comfortable enough with you walking over to her...



    comment on how the fact that she's the only girl in your engineering class is intriguing to you...

    make a statement

    "You dont follow the crowd but think for yourself and chose this subject yourself...?"

    this is cold reading

    she will say yeah/i guess/laugh or something

    Say "now i wonder if you think different to other girls how would you answer this..."

    You can use any of the hundreds of opinion openers like the jealous girl friend...

    i personally (if its someone I'm going to see all the time) wouldnt be sooo serious and ask a serious opinion but rather be playful...

    I like to appeal to the kid in all of us so id make a question game...

    she'll look forward to talking to you then and you can make it a thing between just you two....




    Maybe questions like

    Robots or aliens

    Pirates or ninjas

    Would you rather This or that....

    coke or pepsi


    lol then ask her why she choose that option ect lol


    Then its a game brother... you have to set the rules after awhile you could play the 5 question Game

    read my posts on Charging for more ideas after.... im not spamming this i think it would be helpful for your situation its called a Game for a reason... play games but be like a arcade machine you gotta Pay to Play... Charging

    Chappy ^_^

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    Default Re: Need help to talk to girl in class

    If you want to get her alone, you can text her and tell her to meet you out of the school scene.
    I personally would wake up and text her something like: "Can you meet me for coffee? I need to copy last class's notes." She might suspect you don't need last classes notes because you're stating an obvious excuse to see her so when you see her for your Brunch Date fist things out of your mouth should be: "I actually don't need class notes... I didn't even bring my notebook."
    Continue with the tips the previous reply states with the cold read, that's a good one.

    But I think an obvious text wanting to meet alone would be the best way to get some one-on-one time.

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    Default Re: Need help to talk to girl in class

    You could even as her to go shoe shopping with you.

    You may say

    "I need new shoes for school, PE, Gym, whatever... You think you could help me pick one out that'll suit me?"

    Words to that effect.

    Girls love to shop... And girls love shoes.

    They also love playing with dolls and dress up. Not that your a doll but they are helping you pick out clothes (shoes) so it connects with the child within them that used to play with dollies lol.


    Give it a go... And when ya shopping feel free to wander off and let her come find you. Remember you are there (supposedly) to shop for YOU so you don't need to follow her around lol.

    Chappy ^_^


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