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    Default Most effective number close EVER!

    Let's say you meet a girl.... you start chatting her up, flirting & bantering with her. You realize that things are just simply going better than ever. Then, you get that little click in your head, telling you to get her number. What do you do?

    This is a big hurdle for a lot of guys. To them, it seems like a daunting task to ask a girl for this crucial bit of info. They worry that they'll get rejected, or that they might be imposing too much on her.

    If you've ever been, or are currently in this situation, then this is blog post is for you!
    I'm about to give you one of my personal, most effective, golden nuggets of all time.

    "The most effective Number Close ever!"

    When you see how easy this is, you're gonna kick yourself! You may start thinking about how many girls you let slip away, because you just couldn't bring yourself to ask for the digits.

    This is an actual message exchange I had with a girl on one of the biggest dating sites on the internet. (Who I might add, is now my Fiancee)

    *Side note- This same technique works in person, just as effectively as it does via email / chat / messaging etc.

    So.... I'm going to skip the unnecessary 1st part of the conversation & get right to the meat.
    So, pay attention to the concept here!
    Because once again, you CAN adapt this perfectly into a face to face exchange!

    Let's start this transcript partway through the interaction: (after a quick moment of small talk / chit-chat where I asked her what kind of mischief she planned on getting into)

    -------------------------------------------
    She said:
    RE: Thank you!

    I'm working, but was off all last week so no complaints. My Tuesdays are easy anyway, so itís all good! Enjoy your day off...any plans?


    My reply:

    RE: Thank you!

    My plans for today include: learning to speak Cantonese, building a time machine, and relaxing.
    I realize I probably won't be able to accomplish all of those, so I'll probably just stick with the relaxing part.
    hahaha!


    She said:

    Ha! Relaxing is a goal you can easily obtain so go for it! Have a good one!

    My Reply:
    Ohhhh, if it were only that easy!

    I'm always running at full speed, so relaxation does its darnedest to elude me.
    Although, sometimes it finds a way to catch up; but it stinks when you have to "WORK" at relaxing.... (I REALLY need to fix that..)

    BTW- we've been chatting for a couple days now, & you don't seem like the traditional stalker type.

    AND.... I see a bit of a witty, goofy, somewhat "sassy" side about you. You don't mention it in your profile, but your eyes TOTALLY give it away.

    That said, I'm leaning towards being OK with exchanging digits with you.

    But.... there's one burning question which must be answered first.....


    She said:
    What's that one burning question?

    My Reply: (after waiting a little longer to respond this time)

    Well Laura, that question would be: What's your number? )~ heehee!

    And, just for fun; what was the first concert you ever attended?



    She said:
    The answer to that burning question is 615-xxx-xxxx
    First concert was journey...what about yours?

    -------------------------------------------------

    Bingo!!!! Ask & ye shall receive!!

    It really is that easy!

    Go back & read this a couple times, if you didn't catch the "important" part / actual technique being employed here.
    It's extremely vital that you understand; not only what to say, but WHY to say it, HOW to say it, & why it works!!

    *Hint:
    Flirting.... bantering... bait.... hook.... reel...... catch/net.
    ;o)

    So there ya go!

    I can honestly say that this number close technique has been 100% effective for me.

    & I'd be willing to bet that YOU will have virtually the same success. (Yes there is potential for an occasional dud.... but this has been fine-tuned & tested for maximum efficiency. And by following this simple guideline, you'll have more numbers than you actually need.)

    Now, go apply this knowledge & make it work!


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    Default Re: Most effective number close EVER!

    I love this. I'm gonna have to try this out tonight and let you know how it goes. I like it because the joking tone of the conversation never changes when you ask her the number whereas typically as soon as she hears the word number come out of your mouth, the entire tone of the conversation changes; not necessarily to the point of not getting the number, but its like the word "number" typically sets offan alarm in her head, and even though she will usually give it to me, the mood changes.
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    Default Re: Most effective number close EVER!

    Yeah... that's the beauty of this particular approach.
    It keeps the fun, humorous vibe going & turns off her defense shield.

    It's like they're so geared up for a real serious question & they want to get it right. (because they WANT to give you the digits)... and when you throw that at them it's unexpected & in that emotional state, she's like putty.


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    Default Re: Most effective number close EVER!

    I'll vouch for this method had 100% success with it and I've gotten 6 numbers this week using it on pof!

    one girl even gave me her number before I asked the question lol

    I was like " well my question was going to be what's you number but you've totally stolen my thunder little missy ; )"

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    Default Re: Most effective number close EVER!

    I actually used this at least 3 times, all successfully. My last attempt I have had the most amazing girl message me thus far so I was really nervous when she didn't respond.

    The words "don't over think things" played in my head a few times, and before you know it she played right into it the next morning.

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    Default Re: Most effective number close EVER!

    I have never really used internet dating sites before, so im curious. After you get the number, how many of these numbers turn into dates? T-Mal clearly found what he was looking for and that is great, but is this avenue of pick up really worth exploring?
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    Default Re: Most effective number close EVER!

    One that I find works extremely well, is to casually ask for a girl's number even before you really get into talking and stuff. After a little bit of banter, find out her name yada yada, ask then, make an excuse like "In case my friends drag me away for shots, what's your number?" Get it and then casually continue the conversation, I've never had a girl not give it to me. Then if you continue the conversation, and do get seperated, if things were going well it's pretty easy to find her again.

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    Default Re: Most effective number close EVER!

    Wow....that does seem like an easy line....with a bit I uh,or as well...gotta give it a shot. Will post the results....thanks

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    Default Re: Most effective number close EVER!

    Nice post.

    I don't do online dating but I have already memorized the steps and the basic dialogue. I will work it into my day game.

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    Default Re: Most effective number close EVER!

    Just used this twice for instant success. Awesome.


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