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    Default Aapproach and HB negs you

    Hey fellas,

    What if you approach a girl and she negs you "Not interested" or "not interested fatso" or "not interested baldy"

    How do puas deal with this stuff?

    This is not yet happened to me. But it would be great to know how to deal or respond to this.

    let me know. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Aapproach and HB negs you

    T-Mal says it like a boss
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-approac...rejection.html

    If she says ANYTHING, take it as an ioi and keep playing. It's like haggling in Asia. If someone approaches and is like "hey, wanna buy this?" and you say nothing - that means 'no'; but if you say "No." that means "not yet, convince me, let's haggle"



    ...having said that, it sounds bad. Of course the "no means no" rule is absolutely true, but when you approach a woman and you're in a public place sometimes she'll give you an IOD just to sh1t test or to screen you... I'm gonna stop talking lol, you get the point: keep it respectful and engage her if you can, roll off if you can't
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Thanks Austimus.

    T-mal has some great posts of texting. I'll look that up. And thanks for this link. It really goes on to show that Inner-Game is what really matters. Its what T-Mal emphasizes.
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    And stop thinking about what MIGHT happen. Thats what stops most guys from approaching. Just go out and apprroach ... do it! U probably will get the brush off more often than anything harsh.

    Rule of thumb when u have no response for a girl who is rude (when your new to Pua) just give her a smile like she is crazy. Give her a sarcastic 'OK' in a manner thats says she is a loser and walk away.

    Oh and u r right about inner game ... but make sure if u are bald or fat that u dress well and are clean. That will minimize harsh responses.
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    Thank the heavens I'm not bald. And as for aa, that has died down quite a bit as i continue to day sarge

    But I believe that T-Mal has it right. If your inner game is so strong, you can come up with solid composed response, even if it does not leads to further conversation.

    Thanks for your response. As of now, I am reading T-Mals text game.

    But honestly, I did rather call a chick up once every 3-4 days with minimal to no text at all.

    I'm very hesitant about text gaming as my success with texting has dwindled. But am gaining more confidence on phone calls.
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    The issue i find is, I cannot use the same success formula/Strategy that I had with one chick on the other. I have tried that but failed time and again.

    calibration is where I need practice.

    Its ridiculous really. Its like playing a farking different sonata with every new chick that comes along. What a farking headache.
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    Default Re: Aapproach and HB negs you

    neg her back?

    Make a surprised, weird face and say "Not interested? In what?"

    As in, you're implying that she is not interested in having sex with you, and sex was the last thing on your mind. If she's image-conscious (many, if not most women, are), it will immediately make her drop her guard. Yes, she will invariably get mad at you and start yelling at you. But hey, that means you got her to start a conversation with you!

    Disclaimer: Not exactly tested, but I have seen this to work (sort of).

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    Default Re: Aapproach and HB negs you

    Quote Originally Posted by samwise1984 View Post
    calibration is where I need practice.

    Its ridiculous really. Its like playing a farking different sonata with every new chick that comes along. What a farking headache.
    There are major things that work all the time (or always give you a shot) with women. Basics like body language, humor... confidence, being interesting are always needed.

    As far as comfort, that is something that may vary at times. But again... there are certain things that ALL women find appealing... fashion, psychology, emotions etc
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    Default Re: Aapproach and HB negs you

    this is something i came up wit yesterday it just popped into my head n since i saw this thread i figured i could put it on here...if u approach a girl n she gives u the silent treatment n walks away say this "if your deaf it ok i no sign language" u can change it up either way u want... she will either one bust out laughin n u can go from there or two keep walkin but it could turn things around for u


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