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    Default Sweep a girl off her feet

    Several years ago I read a book called "Intimate connections" by David Burns. In the book, David Burns says, "Many men meet girls and try to sweep them off their feet, but actually it should be the other way around. A man should try to let a girl sweep him off his feet." So he means men should not try to impress a girl, but have a girl impress him. What do you think of David Burn's advice?

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    Default Re: Sweep a girl off her feet

    Its on point, very true once you have the Mindset of you are the prize instead of them thats when you see woman sort of chasing you and trying to qualify themselves to you it make them fight for you and installs a fear of them losing you (the prize)
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    Default Re: Sweep a girl off her feet

    Viruscast, perhaps you misunderstood me. Should I try to sweep a girl off her feet or should I try to let her sweep me off my feet? In intimate connections by David Burns, the author suggests that we try to let a girl sweep us off our feet.What's your idea? If you insist we should try to sweep a girl off her feet, how should we do? If we possess the intention to sweep a girl off her feet, will our intention make us feel pressured or inadequate? In that case, we may underperform.

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    Default Re: Sweep a girl off her feet

    Its hard to sweep a woman off her feet without coming across as needy.And I can almost guarantee that hundreds of guys are trying to sweep her off her feet and gain her affection.By letting her sweep you off your feet you flip the script and that sparks an attraction once you get that started.By the way sweeping someone of there feet is called qualification in the community.So you have to let her qualify herself to you,To understand this process more you have to read this thread by the Red Baron http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...ing-guide.html
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    Default Re: Sweep a girl off her feet

    i have to agree with viruscast, for the most part. in my opinion you should not have to "sweep a gir off her feet" with expensive dates/gifts or any of that romantic crap. but instead you need to sweep her off her feet with the words you speak. i'm not saying you need to "tell her some line" but instead you need to freely express yourself and speak well. as for "letting her sweep you off your feet" the problem with this logic is that if you get too "swept away" by her it will make you needy. but the point to get at is that you need to establish the frame that you are the prize and if she wants you she's going to have to work for it. you need to stay challlenging to her all the way from the first meet till your in the post-seduction stage.


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