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    9thclan1 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default asking girl out from meeting only once

    i was at a event yesterday and this girl came up to me and we started talking. then after we went to an after-party and we continued talking we are hitting it off pretty good in the end she won a bike from a raffle she entered. so i helped her carry the bike all the way to the subway while waiting she asked for my number which i gave to her and before she got on the subway she told me "how can i ever repay you back" and told her"we can go get dinner sometime" she didnt say no or yes i think she just ignored my question and then she told me where she works. when i got home it took her about two hours to send me a message

    Her-Hey! its "her name" from today.. Thanks again so so much for the bike.All the best!
    Me- Hey your welcome I'm glad my luck was able to help you. take good care of the bike.

    And she still haven't replied back.

    what should i do should a wait a few more days or message her again asking her out to dinner

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    Default Re: asking girl out from meeting only once

    well from what you posted she seems to be an agressive type, she knows what she wants and she goes after it. Now on your behalf the "we should go grab dinner" shows already you are thinking of dating her. you did something nice by taking the bike to the subway which is not a bad thing to do especially after having good convo the entire night.

    You should of followed with something coming off more like i dont care attitude or maybe a cocky funny line.

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    B-637 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: asking girl out from meeting only once

    Hey 9thclan1,

    Did you ask if she has a boyfriend? From your post it comes off that way.

    It seems like she is very interested in you, otherwise she would not have talk with you all night, said yes to you walking her to the train, or asked for your number. However, at the same time she seems to have some reservation with committed to that interest; because, she did not reply to your question of dinner.

    If she is in a relationship it may not be going well or it may be coming to an end. Until it comes to a conclusion she wants to be fair to both of you, there-by not answer your question.

    The way I would approach this girl is by not making her feel she commits to anything with you. That way her conscience is clear towards both of you. So how do you do that?

    You mentioned that you were at an event. Which means she must have been interested in the topic of that event. So to meet her again on a non-committal basis, find another event with the same or similar topic. Then send her a short SMS (don't call her) asking her if she knows about this event? Don't tell her you are going or anything yet, because you want to open a quick dialog with her. This is best done with short probing questions.

    The easiest way to approach a girl which puts up these kind of defenses, "All the best" is by treating her as if she is in a relationship.

    If her relationship is in the dumps, she may need someone independent (outside her circle) to speak with. This could be your way in. Remember relationships are like a garden, you must first plant a seed (which you have done), then nourish it until it starts to grow. Hope that helps.

    Good luck buddy!


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