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Thread: Inappropriate to ask a girl out at work?

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    Default Inappropriate to ask a girl out at work?

    I'm a college student. There's a really nice girl working in one of the campus bookstores. I'm in there several times and she remembers me and we always have friendly conversation. I don't know if she's interested or not, so whatever. My main problem is, I want to ask her out but her boss is usually standing right behind her. He's the nicest guy in the world, but I'm not sure if he'd take kindly to me hitting on his employees. Also, what's a few clever ways to diffuse awkward encounters if she has a boyfriend or just says no? Or worse, if her boss gets involved...thanks!

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    Default Re: Inappropriate to ask a girl out at work?

    I asked a bartender for her number when her Boss and an investor was standing there while she was pulling money from the cash register. They stood there and looked at me like WTF, but she was impressed and I got her.

    I found out she was a modeling on the side while going to school and the gig was temporary.

    So the point is that you approach her with confidence, and you close her with confidence. Dont care about whatever she says, women as a whole respects men who are confident , and men respects other confident men approaching women.
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    Default Re: Inappropriate to ask a girl out at work?

    I guess you could try get her away from the counter 'Can you help me find a book over here?', wait until the boss is occuppied (phone call etc - get your buddy to call shop and create a diversion haha) or wait until she leaves work and 'accidently' bump into her. You only need a second to say 'write your number down on the receipt, it would be great to chat to you more'. If she says 'ive got a boyfriend' say 'good for you' and continue to get her number. If you're smooth her boss won't even notice and if he's truly a nice guy he won't tease the situation if he does hear. If you know he's a nice guy Im assuming you already have some rapport with him.

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    Default Re: Inappropriate to ask a girl out at work?

    Just look for some signs if your proceeding right....

    Theyll always be nice if they are on the job but the tip is to look to see if they are attracted to you and operating outside of those bounds...that is if you prime the pump haha

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    Default Re: Inappropriate to ask a girl out at work?

    this is a good question. i have a few ladies i would ask out from my work, but nothing serious. would it compromise my work enviroment? how would you approach it?

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    Default Re: Inappropriate to ask a girl out at work?

    Quote Originally Posted by lucianoA View Post
    this is a good question. i have a few ladies i would ask out from my work, but nothing serious. would it compromise my work enviroment? how would you approach it?
    How close are they in your work environment. Do you see them multiple times a day? Do you work along side them? One key is to have distance between you and them at work that way theres no interference with your job...especially to the point where authority figures may have something to say about it.

    There are several accurate articles online that explain how to have a successful relationship at work.


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