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    What are the qualities of a best opener?
    which one is yours ?

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    Default Re: whats your best opener?

    "did you see that fight outside"

    old school but nothing stirs up curiosity then violence now a days apearently.

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    Default Re: whats your best opener?

    And how are you gonna back it up ?

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    Default Re: whats your best opener?

    "Hey, you're cute. We should have sex sometime."
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    Default Re: whats your best opener - what are the qualities?

    Unexpected + frame control (you as the prize) = good opener
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: whats your best opener - what are the qualities?

    I always think of mine on the fly if none of tyrones or autismus's situational openers fit. If I can't think of any during day game I ask where the nearest Starbucks is, during night game I ask if they mind I sit with them and give a reason why I want to.
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    Default Re: whats your best opener - what are the qualities?

    As you progress in PUA I feel like the best qualities about a good opener is that it is truly genuine and your conveying your interested on the outside AND inside... I used to use canned openers and still do occasionally but I've become much better at using my surroundings and beginning a connection right away..

    ALWAYS remember though...it's not so much what you say in the opener but rather HOW you say it...the girl is more impressed by your confidence than a "cheesy/witty" pickup line.

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    Default Re: whats your best opener - what are the qualities?

    The "Opener" isn't really important... in fact, you can pretty much skip it altogether.

    A lot of guys think they need to strike up a "conversation" with a girl, which makes them nervous because they're afraid of not knowing what to talk about.
    ....So they end up trying to memorize a scripted routine to direct the conversation a certain way.

    What's really important is: your Body Language & Flirting.

    I started skipping the opener & just going straight in with flirting.

    "Heeeeey You!!!" *As I make strong eye contact, smile & hold my arms outward to hug her.

    Or.... use bantering / teasing, and make random situational comments to razz the girl a little bit.

    "What's up with your shifty eyes? I can tell you're absolutely up to no good..."
    *as I smile, wink & playfully nudge her with my elbow.

    Just be confident & express a fun, energetic vibe. Don't be afraid to flirt! That's why most guys end up in the friend zone.

    The only purpose of "the opener" is to get her paying attention to you long enough, so you can start flirting with her & build attraction.

    So don't over-think the opener.



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    "I was gonna wear that same shirt/dress, but it didn't match my shoes" then depending on how they react I decide how go from there

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    Default Re: whats your best opener - what are the qualities?

    Like most people have said openers don't really matter as it's just a way of initiating conversation but my two best ones split two ways in terms of one being for day game and one for nightgame.

    Daygame:
    Sohan: Excuse me, I don't usually do this but I want to ask a quick question.
    HB: Ok sure.
    Sohan: I only have a minute but where did you get that *insert piece of clothing that looks really cool* from?
    HB: *will say where she got it from or doesn't know*
    Sohan: Oh ok cool, well you seem to have a very good eye for fashion, I had a friend just like you when I was working at House of Fraser *expensive and well known clothes shop* but I need help looking for a *insert item of clothing you mentioned* for my cousin as it's her birthday coming up soon... stack to dhv about your cousin.

    Nightgame:
    Sohan: Hey, do I know you from somewhere? *smiling*
    HB: No (or some variation unless you actually met her before)
    Sohan: Really? because I was helping my close friend Daniel out who was auditioning people for the Wizard of Oz in London last month and I swear I saw an actress just like you who applied for the roll of wicked witch of the east.
    HB: No that wasn't me.
    Sohan: Hmm yeah you could be right, come to think of it *squinting eyes like you're judging something* she did have better hair than you, it was much more vibrant but I think you have a cuter smile *she will start giggling and laughing* anyway are guys best friends? *stack for best friends test*

    I know they're canned but I love my wizard of oz one as it gets them laughing and I created it on my own so there's no trouble of being called out on them.
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