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    Default Need Help with Mid Game

    Hello, So i'm starting to get over my Approach Anxiety and getting my confidence up, but I still have trouble talking after the approach. How can I keep a girls interest and keep conversing with her. I get past all of the formalities like what's your name, where your from, etc, but a lot of the time after I get stumped. Can anyone please offer me some advice? Thank you.

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    Default Re: Need Help with Mid Game

    Those are the questions you DON'T want to ask right off the bat.
    Every guy is asking her those same things, thousands & thousands of times.

    You also don't need to worry about having a conversation early on. (Which is good because, you don't have to worry about what to say or talk about)

    In the very beginning, you want to build attraction... not rapport.

    Building attraction is accomplished through flirting & body language. The only verbal interaction you need when you first meet a girl is teasing & bantering.

    Just stick with light, fun, flirty topics.
    That's actually all you need.

    Then, later on when you've established the attraction, you can move into the rapport phase. (And by that time the girl should be quite chatty, so there won't be a lack of conversational topics.)



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    Default Re: Need Help with Mid Game

    Very good post by T-mal.


    Thats what I like to do. And he explained it nicely by saying thats what you dont want to do, cuz its been done many times by other guys that have approached her over and over.

    Hes right as I have talked to girls, skipping the common talks, and things move along really quick and nicely, from both sides, her and I both asking other questions and teasing/flirting..but then its sort of funny when neither of you know each others names. Im sure some have seen various PUA videos where stuff is progressing really fast and theres a point, possibly at Number Close where neither of you know each others names...and with some girls this could be a hang up....YOUR'RE asking for my number without knowing my name????!?!


    It may not be bad to introduce yourself and exchange names initially but thats about all I would do that is common, however most guys dont have the balls to introduce themselves officially and shaking hands THEN diving into some game. Also at this point its real easy to toss in some type of "wrench" to get the gaming started. Shake her hand then pull back real fast....OH WTF, what is on your hands? Straight toy with them. The number of things you can say and do at this point is endless to get in the right "phase" of gaming. Some will act pretty impressed if you come up and introduce yourself, theyll primp up, straighten up their shoulders, and match your body language.....thus if your coming on as confident, comfortable, and non nervous, she should mirrior this and your good to proceed.


    Whats the common thing, introduce, act nervous, eyes everywhere but on her, ask the same formal questions, then 180 and turn away cause your done and you just realized that that whole interaction was stale.

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    Default Re: Need Help with Mid Game

    Never over think any situation with a girl. If within yourself, you find ( yourself ) ,noticing ( yourself ) a hint of awkwardness, it's almost to late. Most guys that find themselves in those silent moments have some tricks, a joke or something of that nature - to help them out. But in all reality the best way to deal with girls, is the same way you'd deal with any other person, men included. The best method is to have a couple tiers of " kinds of ppl ". Spot the chatty ones, the silent ones, the lying ones, the honest ones, the funny, etc. And to make it easy in regards to girls - 70-80% will talk. And i mean T A L K. So - Don't ask yourself " Why can't i hold a long convo with hot babes ". No no - You should be asking yourself, what are some trigger ' questions ' - that i can have a mental bag of to get a girl t a l k i n g. Give it some thought. When you do it correctly, you will be 90% of the time responding - rather then contrary. Before you know it you'll be asking for tips on how to spot girls that have a verbal lid if you will, ( j k )
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