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Thread: Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

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    Default Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

    So there's this girl I'm very much attracted to in one of my classes but I never had the opportunity to speak with her.

    I was out shopping one night and I happened to run into her working at a clothing store. I introduced myself, tried to get her to go out and grab a bite to eat that evening after she got out of work. She said she wouldn't be hungry even though it was like 5 hours later, and she said she also had a boyfriend.

    I ran into on campus about a week or so later, I asked her if she would study with me and help me get an A on the next exam. I apologized to her if I was acting weird, I was kind of baked at the time.

    She offered her phone number. I texted her about 20-30 minutes later just so she had my number too. She said that if she helped me study, we should get high. She also conversed a little bit via text. I thought everything was going good.

    The next day we meet up around lunch time, I was a bit nervous but I was trying not to show it. I figured we could smoke for 30 minutes or so in my car and then go study after... she said she has smoked in the past but not in a while.

    I took 3-4 hits, she only took 1 hit...

    At first I thought she was just high, we chilled... listen to music in my car, laughed a little.. everything seemed to be going ok... Then she became extremely tired, or appeared to be... she was having a hard time keeping her eyes open. It's like she was drifting in and out of consciousness.

    She kept saying negative things about herself.... that she was "bat shit crazy", that she had schizophrenia, that her parents didn't love her, that she wasn't skinny enough, not "Barbie" enough... she kept saying she needed help.

    I was asking if she wanted me to take her to the hospital but she kept saying that she just wanted to sit in my car.

    It got to a point where I grabbed her face and was like trying to get her to look me in the eyes, but she refused.

    Eventually, I decided to go to a fast food restaurant for like a milkshake and fry... she ate, and then I dropped her off at her car. She was going to have me take her home, but decided against it.

    This episode, or w/e you want to call it lasted about 3-4 hours.

    I have thought about nothing but her for a little over 24 hours. I really don't know what to do. I tried texting her last night, her only response was "Hey im fine sorry about today".

    She walked into class today, smiled at me and sat down... after class I tried to talk her, she left in a hurry and I almost missed her. She said she didn't want to talk about it. She refuses to communicate with me even though I've told her that I was concerned and that I want to talk with her.

    I have absolutely no idea what to do. I've smoked with a lot of people in my life, and I've never had ANYTHING like this happen to me. I like this girl, and I want to be there for her if she needs someone to talk to. She said I didn't do anything wrong... but idk...

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    Default Re: Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

    She seems like a mess man. Maybe too much work on your plate. You can send a message if she needs anything to contact you, but you need to realize that she's got other issues other than you trying to hit her up to deal with, especially with a boy friend...That is if she has one. Is she a girl worth dating attached with all her problems? We all have problems, but we don't usually tell people we don't know our problems on a second meeting...

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    Default Re: Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

    I come into contact with quite a few schizophrenic patients via my job, do yourself a favor...avoid. It can become dangerous and there's no reason to put yourself in a situation where you have to fear for yours or her safety.

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    Default Re: Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

    Quote Originally Posted by chronic_y2k2 View Post
    I come into contact with quite a few schizophrenic patients via my job, do yourself a favor...avoid. It can become dangerous and there's no reason to put yourself in a situation where you have to fear for yours or her safety.
    what is your job? did what I describe sound like someone who could have schizophrenia?

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    Default Re: Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

    Let's just say that I work in the public health sector. There's too little information to know whether or not she is schizophrenic, I'd need to know her personally. All I'm getting at is, I don't believe this game is about getting yourself involved with unstable people.

    It's nice that you would like to help her, it really is and I wish there were more people like that, although you have to realise that she is not your responsibility. Offer her a helping hand if you feel the need to, it's the least you can do, but you don't want to be dating a girl who has some serious issues that just lays them all onto you (unless you're into that sort of thing).
    I'm not trying to tell you what to do here, and she could have been having just a weird off day. But, if she is, then it's a burden that you needn't carry.

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    Default Re: Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

    Quote Originally Posted by chronic_y2k2 View Post
    Let's just say that I work in the public health sector. There's too little information to know whether or not she is schizophrenic, I'd need to know her personally. All I'm getting at is, I don't believe this game is about getting yourself involved with unstable people.

    It's nice that you would like to help her, it really is and I wish there were more people like that, although you have to realise that she is not your responsibility. Offer her a helping hand if you feel the need to, it's the least you can do, but you don't want to be dating a girl who has some serious issues that just lays them all onto you (unless you're into that sort of thing).
    I'm not trying to tell you what to do here, and she could have been having just a weird off day. But, if she is, then it's a burden that you needn't carry.
    Well... I am a Psychology major, although I am only a freshman. I'm 25, a veteran returning to university to get an education in my hometown where I no longer have an abundance of friends. This girl is like 5 years younger than me and my thoughts... awake or dreaming, have been consumed with her. I really want to help her, at least be her friend... I think she could use one, and tbh I could too..

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    Default Re: Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

    Quote Originally Posted by Spirit Reckoner View Post
    Well... I am a Psychology major, although I am only a freshman. I'm 25, a veteran returning to university to get an education in my hometown where I no longer have an abundance of friends. This girl is like 5 years younger than me and my thoughts... awake or dreaming, have been consumed with her. I really want to help her, at least be her friend... I think she could use one, and tbh I could too..
    I appreciate where you're coming from mate, and I can understand it's hard to make new friends where many have left. All I'm saying from what you've said in your post, is that people with mental and neurological issues can have troubling inter-personal relationships, it's something that I've not only studied but also experienced as well. In some cases, these individuals can go on to have fruitful relationships.
    I'm not trying to dissuade you from befriending her, I was merely hoping that you didn't become someone's crutch unnecessarily. If you really feel the need to befriend her, by all means go for it, but at the same time why not try to expand your social circle in the same way that you did with her, who knows you may find someone incredible (may be not, but that's the beauty of this site and this game!).
    In either case, do what you feel is best for you, it's the least you should do.

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    Default Re: Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

    My two cents: Let her problems be her problems. You'd be robbing her of growing and maturing on her own.

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    Default Re: Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

    Quote Originally Posted by Izanagi3 View Post
    My two cents: Let her problems be her problems. You'd be robbing her of growing and maturing on her own.
    Astute and to the point...love it.

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    Default Re: Unique Scenario - Girl w/ Schizophrenia?

    Quote Originally Posted by Izanagi3 View Post
    My two cents: Let her problems be her problems. You'd be robbing her of growing and maturing on her own.
    From my experiences... its often times the people you surround yourself with that help you grow in ways which would not happen otherwise.

    I feel like this girl needs someone


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