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    Default How to tease without being an ass

    One of my weak points is not being able to tease girls. I either end up not phrasing it right or coming off as too serious and then they might think I'm a jack ass. What are some things I can do to improve?

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    Default Re: How to tease without being an ass

    You addressed your problems, perfect, that's the
    first step to improve...
    Smile! Smile! smile! , can't stress this enough,
    A smile is powerful, women respond to it,
    If you really need to improve at it that bad,
    rehearse it...practice... try different ways of saying what ever
    in front of the mirror, but when it comes to teasing it's mostly 10% what you say, & 90% how you say it...
    I think the correct way to "tease" is cocky/funny, be playful, & Push-Pull .

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    Default Re: How to tease without being an ass

    I think that a smile is a good start but it depends on the type of smile. It should be a kinda half smile. One where it looks like u cant tell whether you are joking. It should not be a big, dumb 'i just won the lottery ' type smile.

    If u dont know what i mean by half smile... think about (or go ahead and try to capture it now) one time where u heard something that made u think or laugh as you walked away from whoever said it. You kinda gave yourself a half smile. Thats what i find works just right when using cocky funny
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    Default Re: How to tease without being an ass

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    I think that a smile is a good start but it depends on the type of smile. It should be a kinda half smile. One where it looks like u cant tell whether you are joking. It should not be a big, dumb 'i just won the lottery ' type smile
    I walk around with a big smile everywhere I go, its welcoming from the get go so they are comfortable talking to you and they naturally see your just a fun loving guy and when you tease her, as long as you have that same big smile, she will assume your trying for the laughs you strive from.

    When you tease a girl I agree that its ten percent what you say and ninety percent how you say it, but I feel that how its callibrated with everything you have said prior to the teasing is what matters. That big ass smile is fine as long as its what you've been doing. Sometimes though when I start teasing my smile will fade with my mood into something more seductive.
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    Default Re: How to tease without being an ass

    Definitely some great advice about smiling!!
    That's the key to making sure you come across as flirting, rather than being an @ss.

    A simple smile & wink will make a world of difference!


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    Default Re: How to tease without being an ass

    Thanks for the advice, I will work on smiling. I agree with 10% is what you say and 90% is how you say it. I struggle with the substance though, for example joking. I tend to overlook the obvious. I'm preprogrammed to be a more literal or technically savvy person.



    IMO this is a great example of the type of conversations I want to be able to spontaneously have with women. I hope sidewinder doesnt mind me posting it here.



    This is what I mean by saying the right thing. His opener, I feel, is much more right than for example saying something random along the lines of Hey I noticed you like cheesecake.







    sidewinder89:

    I noticed you noticing me; so, I just want to put you on notice that I noticed you too. So don't be shy and say hi. ; )





    Her:

    Hi lol x





    sidewinder89:

    Thanks for the message. I always smile when someone is so chatty right off the bat! Hope your day is filled with awesomeness! (credit T-Mal)





    Her:

    haha sarcastic? sorry im not that chatty right away lol. it was always it. (yes she is a bit special)





    sidewinder89:

    I'll let it slide... just this once ; ). So how are you ? (yeah awful question, should have done better here)





    Her:

    Hmm or what? What will you do about it? Yeah I'm good thank you . How are you? What do you do it life? X (Sh1t Test)





    sidewinder89:

    Well aren't we feisty! careful or I'll put you over my knee... that's what I'll do about it miss sassy pants .



    I'm good thanks. I build time machines, teach cantonese, cure world hunger... you know little projects. X (gold) again credit T-Mal for sassy pants





    Her:

    i am! haha and then what are you going do do, spank me? hahaha i'd like that too much lol!



    im sure you do haha funny!

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    Default Re: How to tease without being an ass

    Its good to get used to certain routines sometimes, but don't make it a habit with planning out conversations. each girl is unique and should be addressed accordingly, not to mention you will freak if anything goes as planned, and with mewbies that wanna try lines and get the conversation going a certain way, often times they say things that don't really fit.

    That opener is pretty well known, I used it five years ago and a girl told me she had already heard it.
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    Hey mate...
    I go overboard with negs when I believe a girl can handle it, and I found that easiest way to solve it (once you've gone too far and you are in damage control) is too pretend nothing happened and then come back later and ask her: "Wait, are you really insulted because of what I said, are you really that insecure? Look, I'm sorry, it's just that I was brought up in the family in which we tease each other all the time, that's how we show affection. But, I'll be good to you, if you'll be good to me. Deal? Ok, now pinky swear."

    And then later I would still tease her (but less frequently), and she would complain because we did pinky swear, and I broke it,, or even better she would start teasing me, and I would complain that she broke the pinky swear.

    It's just a great way to create that feeling that it's just me and her against the world, you know... So, try it out and let us know


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