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    Bok_ Bok is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Complex situation........... .What to do next?

    Hi All,

    I'd really love some advice on how to go about my next step with this girl I met a few weeks ago in a club.

    So, I met this girl at a club. I lost my friends and she lost hers we ended talking to each other. Walked about the club with her and she was really into me, to the point where she pushed me against the wall and we started kissing, I was a bit taken back but it was a nice surprise. Whole night we were together and we went to a few places (outside of the club) before ending back at her place and had a playful night (no sex).

    Next day, spoke a bit and got her number and then I set off.

    Forward three weeks later (last Friday) and I text her saying "hey, you out tonight, I'm going to X. Give me a shout if you're out" I already knew she was going to X, I just wanted to see what her reply was. She replied "Yeah I am! I'll probably see you there "

    Later that night I meet her again, after the club closed, I texted her saying "you fancy coming to this house party?" she replied "I'm home now but if you're near ABC come to mine"

    Went around hers and she was fast asleep, so we didn't do anything (I just slept next to her)Next day she wakes up she found it hilarious that I was next to her and she said I should have waken her up and what not.

    We chat for a few hours and I set off again.

    Have to mention there have been a few ioi (I think) she ask me to hold her hand, hug her, and she always pulls my cheeks.....

    Now, here's where it gets a bit tricky.....I live about 40 minutes away from her so it's not that easy for me to see her instantly. The only time I get a chance to meet up with her is during the weekends when I'm off work, even then it's a bit difficult because I don't want her knowing that I'm coming up to her city just to see her, so I make it look like a coincidence that I've already got plans and pretend she just fits into them.

    I really want to ask her out on a date but I don't know how to go about it. Luckily my friends have something planned this week (Sunday) so I could go up and say I'm meeting them and ask her if she wants to hang out during the day or something? I don't want to make her feel uneasy and say, "hey, fancy doing ABC this weekend" knowing that I've come up just to see her ( adds a bit of pressure).

    Also, being 40 mins away it's hard trying to make her keep remembering me and I'm wondering whether she actually fancies me enough for me to ask her on a date? When texting ( I don't text her too often) I've always texted her first (most of the time she replies) and she never initiates a text conversation?

    I really do fancy her. I'm a bit concerned that because I don't live that close to her she might be put off from going on a date with me.

    What do you guys reckon and have any of you been in a similar situation.


    To add to the situation she will be going back home for Christmas (uni student)


    So, to summarise I've met her twice in real life within 3 weeks, texted each other occasionally and might possibly meet up again this weekend.


    Thanks


    Bok Bok

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    Bok_ Bok is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Complex situation........... .What to do next?

    UPDATE: So I'm basically going to my mates this weekend (Sunday) and he lives in the same city as the girl. I've got a few hours to burn before seeing my mates so thought it would be a good opportunity to meet up with her.

    I texted her this evening saying "hey! what you up to this weekend?" and after a few hours (4-5) I've heard nothing. I probably should have just texted her saying I'm coming up to your city this weekend, fancy going for a few drinks etc" but I wanted to find out whether she was actually busy or not.

    I'm now stuck in the position thinking whether I should text her again tomorrow and actually say" I'm coming up, fancy meeting up, blah blah blah" or leave it on the actual day and tell her?

    Or....does my initial text make her think that I'm going to ask her out and she doesn't want t,o so she's just not replying?


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