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    Lightbulb Vecen's College game plan

    Step 1: become a super cool dude on campus
    Step 2: bang all the ladies >

    Q: What a brilliant and marvelous plan! What sort of genius does it take to form such intricate beauty?
    A: sarcasm duly noted!

    Lovesystem’s and Braddock’s college game seminars on YouTube are my focal points for my masterful plan.

    Step 1: Gain a fashionable wardrobe and a good body
    -I will be returning to my home for November where my family will be buying my new clothes.
    -I plan on a semi-layering fashion but still very casual outlook, I have several friends with a good fashion sense that I am going with to help me.
    -I am currently going to the gym once per day, and meeting all the people who can help me.

    Step 2: meet EVERYONE on campus
    -I plan on greeting at least 5-10 new people per day, and my current stratagem involves going to at least one club meeting for any club I have even the barest interest in.
    -Try to use primarily warm approaches (unless at a party)
    -Join a fraternity

    Step 3: Become better at building rapport
    -I am terrible at this, and I most definitely need to work on my conversational skills.
    -Begin to integrate qualification into my speech.

    P.S. get the title joke? its like college game, AND a game plan? (chortles in bemusement)
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    Default Re: Vecen's College game plan

    I like your plan Vecen. It's a good place to start the journey.
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    Default Re: Vecen's College game plan

    I like your sarcasm more than anything else. I take sarcasm in any form to be directly proportional to future success on this site.

    As for your game plan, I'd say you've got a pretty good grasp on how college social interactions work, even if you are getting into it pretty late in the game (first semester's almost over bro). You just need to cover some logistics.

    First off, you say you're going to try to avoid cold approaches, and yet you're going to greet 5-10 new people a day. Now unless you're talking about a passing "hey, whats up?" those greeting's are going to look and feel a heck of a lot like cold approaches. Even if they're on guys, talking to strangers is an acquired taste, a skill you have to practice and learn. The good news there is no better place on God's green Earth than a college campus to talk to strangers. People expect it. That said (and I love your enthusiasm) I'm going to recommend you turn that number down a little. Try 3 or 4 at first and work up. Eventually you won't even have to count, it'll just happen.

    Second, while it's great when you meet a girl through a mutual friend, it doesn't happen that often. People, especially college kids, have a tendency to keep their social circles separate. So you probably won't be getting as many introductions as you'd like unless you straight up ask your friends to introduce you to their other friends. The good news is that with all your training in talking to strangers, you'll be primed for cold approaches. And that opens up pretty much ever door you could ever want. You see a cute girl, you talk to her. Easy as that.

    I'm not even going to mention the frat business. Maybe that's just cause I don't like raiding my grandfather's closet in the ever-fading hopes that I'll find a polo shirt that is unique to me (bedecked with nautical flags or other brightly colored shapes to show that my parents have money and no parenting skills).

    Disclaimer: I'm snarky towards frat stars as an idea, not on an individual basis. I have friends who are in a fraternity and have managed to keep their individuality by some miracle, and they're great.

    There are a lot of ways to help build rapport. My favorite is the Question-Statement Method, (also known as the ping pong, the flip-flop and the Romney). Basically you alternate between asking questions and making statements ever time the conversation comes back to you. Never stay the same, cause then things just get boring. If all you do is ask questions, it'll feel like an interview. If all you do is make statements, you'll be hogging the conversation. You want to switch back and forth between the two. I'll demonstrate.

    Her: So what's your major?
    Me: Oh, I'm a journalism major. I thought you could tell by my sneakers and messenger bag. (jokes, I love them)
    Her: haha oh of course, how could I miss that. All you need know is a note pad and a fedora with a press card in the band.
    Me: Funny you mention that, cause it's in the mail. And judging from your quick wit and the business casual look you're wearing that you're pre-law. Am I right? (little trick of mine. Never ask what they're major is. Always take a guess. It spices things up)
    Her: Actually I'm a psychology major. What made you think Law student?
    Me: Oh no reason, you just seem like a rule follower who always goes to bed on time *wink*. (now you're disqualifying her. She'll want to prove she's adventurous)
    Her: Am not! In fact just a few nights ago I was out all night with some friends.
    Me: No kidding, what did you guys do?

    You can go on and on with this. And here's the genius of it. People love talking about themselves, but they hate answering questions all the time. With this technique, you can keep the conversation focused on her while still giving her plenty of hooks to carry the convo. It's a great basic technique for keeping the conversation going. Plus you can always spice it up with other tactics like teasing or dhv or disqualifying.

    I expect great things from you and your snarkiness.
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    Default Re: Vecen's College game plan

    Double posted. It's an error that happens occasionally. So now I have to write this...we need a delete button.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”


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