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Thread: I would like advice on this girl I'm currently working on.

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    Default I would like advice on this girl I'm currently working on.

    I'm a 22 yr old guy who is still currently in college and I met this cute Latina in her early to mid 20's who recently graduated on the subway home from my internship a few weeks ago. I started a conversation with her after a sketchy guy looking for trouble attempted to accost me and eventually her while we were waiting in a crowed for our train to come. After instigating the conversation the train came and we boarded sitting in separate seats near each other.

    Throughout the ride we continued to talk to each other namely about basic subjects like names, what she was doing in the city etc. Eventually me and her found out we worked at internships with the same focus, and that make her very interested in me I think? Additionally, I knew alot about the country she came from which I also think helped establish some sort of rampore.

    Towards her stop I give her my business card which had my name, phone #, and email on it which I causally do when I meet someone regardless of the situation. I decided it was too early to try to exchange phone numbers She in turn give me a piece of paper with her name on it, which she told me to look up on Facebook. So I eventually get around to adding her on Facebook a few days later an she accepted sometime later.

    When I check my personal email a couple of weeks later(which I don't do often). I found out she had emailed me a couple of days after me met saying that I hadn't added her yet...in her email she used a smiley face at the end of her message so it wasn't angry or anything.

    So after adding her I FB'ed her where I apologized for adding her sooner as I had been swamped with both my school and internship. She responded that it was ok and we got talking again, furthermore in her replies she used alot of smiley faces again and she asked more about me and I did the same with her. Where we talked about work, and me & her future ambitions. I ended it by asking if she wanted to hang out sometime and I finally give her my phone number and she give me her's' after I asked for it. She again responded cheerfully and it seemed enthusiastically to the prospect.

    Now what should I think of this is she interested in me? Also how do I keep this going as I'm always able to establish a connection then reach some sort of roadblock/dead end, I'm trying to figure out her full intentions so I'm taking things very slowly even though it's early.

    Also this is her first stay in the U.S. as she is doing an internship here. Her English is pretty good and everything. But idk how many people she knows around my area so I'm trying to figure out if she is interested in me, is she just flirting, or is she just trying to make a friend. Any of these is fine from my pov but I would like to know which?

    Thanks for the advice in advance!

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    Default Re: I would like advice on this girl I'm currently working on.

    all comfort and raport without attraction = friendzone
    did you joke with/tease her at all? i think you are going to end up as her new friend in the u.s. of a, you failed to create the necisary attraction in her before moving into comfort building you will probably here the phrase lets just be friends if you try to get this girl. move on, find better wemon. there is no easey way out of the friendzone.

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    Default Re: I would like advice on this girl I'm currently working on.

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    all comfort and raport without attraction = friendzone
    did you joke with/tease her at all? i think you are going to end up as her new friend in the u.s. of a, you failed to create the necisary attraction in her before moving into comfort building you will probably here the phrase lets just be friends if you try to get this girl. move on, find better wemon. there is no easey way out of the friendzone.
    There is some teasing/joking going on and she seems comfortable in a flirtatious way so maybe? I'm going to try to hangout with her this weekend and see where that leads.

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    Default Re: I would like advice on this girl I'm currently working on.

    go for gold, but always be respectful of her no's, if she tells you to stop always back off no matter what. you will soon find out if she friendzoned you (wich i suspect) or if she actualy likes you. be on the lookout for subtle ioi's or IOD's if she gives you multiple ioi's in a row your in. but if she gives off more than 2 iod's in a row your stuck in a hole be sure to Kino escalate, if your in the friendzone she probably won't allow anything more than casual (friendly) kino. but if you can get away with touching her face then you should go for a k-close as soon as you do

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    Default Re: I would like advice on this girl I'm currently working on.

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    go for gold, but always be respectful of her no's, if she tells you to stop always back off no matter what. you will soon find out if she friendzoned you (wich i suspect) or if she actualy likes you. be on the lookout for subtle ioi's or IOD's if she gives you multiple ioi's in a row your in. but if she gives off more than 2 iod's in a row your stuck in a hole be sure to Kino escalate, if your in the friendzone she probably won't allow anything more than casual (friendly) kino. but if you can get away with touching her face then you should go for a k-close as soon as you do
    Advice understood!

    I'll report back after I see where it get's me!

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    Default Re: I would like advice on this girl I'm currently working on.

    You've gotta just go for it with her and show her a great time. She's looking for that someone to make her feel comfortable being new to the states. If you show her you're the one who can blow her mind, she'll be all about you.

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    Default Re: I would like advice on this girl I'm currently working on.

    Mate, Idk what planet these other guys here lives at, but there is no reason whatsoever why she should not be interested in you from what you are telling me here.

    you gotta remember, she might be wondering the exact same thing as you.. and trying to figure it out.. is he interested? does he just want to be a friend? or maybe does he have balls to show me that he likes me if he does...

    Try consider that she will show you wether she likes you or not once SHE knows wether you like her or not... meaning.. you need to indicate to her that you are interested in her... show her IOIs you know.

    A tips for u would be warm to this girl, and maybe hint a little towards something sexual if you can.. a good question for you could be to ask her if she is singel, because thats what you want to hear that she is right? and then she will get a slight idea that you might be interested in her,,, which is a good thing.

    a sexual comment thats nice is... "when are you and me going to hook up " - important with the smiley face in the end... it means basically 2 things this one... that you want to meet.. but also that you might want to HOOK UP... if you know what i mean

    I would go with those two.. or something that is of that nature.. then you will find out.

    You get what you give. let her know a little.. Good luck

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    Default Re: I would like advice on this girl I'm currently working on.

    important: dont ask if she has a boyfriend.. ask if she is singel


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