Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 9 of 9
Like Tree1Likes
  • 1 Post By hyp

Thread: what to do next in this weird situation

  1. #1
    soslick is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 92, Level: 1
    Level completed: 84%, Points required for next Level: 8
    Overall activity: 2.0%
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    22
    Points
    92
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default what to do next in this weird situation

    ill give as much info as i can but i feel like its a weird situation, sorry if its a little confusing since i usually have gut feelings about things and just go with it, but this one i dont wanna fark up this one..

    i met this HB9 while at my friend megs house (megs roomate is the HBs friend).. at the time she was in a long term relationship but there was a lot of flirting between both of us.. lot of push pull and neggin on both our ends..

    out of the blue, two days ago she messages me on facebook. we chit chat a bit, again negging a little bit, played a nice alpha male position and told her im getting off-line and to just text me and gave her my number.. seconds later i get her texting me.. she tells me how she got dumped last night.. we talk a little more and i tell her to come visit me at work (im a bartender)... she give give resistance, and i tell her well i gotta go to work, and hope to see her later..

    i have a good feeling about the girl diggin me from all the flirting/chatting via FB and text, so when i go into work, i see my friend meg.. i told her that im gonna try and bag a new hottie and that she knows the girl.. i told her who it was, and she said i should go for it.. she also said she noticed that the HB was responding well the first time i met her... so i filled her in with what i just told you guys, and she says good luck trying to get her to come in to see me.. meg goes home to her apartment, and not even a half hour later, she texts me saying that her, her roomate, and HB are gonna come in a visit..

    HB called megs roomate saying she wanted to "hang out" and that they should go out to get some drinks.. so they come in with megs gf, and another mutual AFC... i

    i was crazy busy at work and had no real time to game or really talk to any of them, but meg told me that she "talked me up".. we made a lot of contact/smiling at eachother, and talked a little.. but i really couldnt do much since i was so busy.. i also had a wing at my bar drinking, told him the situation very quickly, and asked him to watch and he said it seemed like she was into me.. everyone left and the girls went out dancing for the night while i hadda finish up work..

    at the end of my shift, i texted her saying sorry that i wasnt as entertaining as i could have been, and asked how the night went after they left.. (bad move?) well she responded.. we talked a little more.. i also thanked her for giving me wayy too much money as a tip.. she said she did it cause no one would let her pay for her drinks.. i told her that she could take me out to dinner and pay if she wanted to complain about it.. she said "sure maybe before you leave me "(im moving from NJ to FL at the end of the year) talked more.. ended the convo since it was late at night...


    whats the move now?

    i do have plans with meg and her roomate this weekend to go out, and HB knows since me and the girls since i made the plans right in front of her... should i invite her out with us? should i talk to the roomate to ask her to come out so its not at threatening?

    HELP!!

  2. #2
    Fuser is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,653, Level: 33
    Level completed: 36%, Points required for next Level: 97
    Overall activity: 23.1%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    387
    Points
    2,653
    Level
    33
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    132

    Default Re: what to do next

    Quote Originally Posted by soslick View Post
    ill give as much info as i can but i feel like its a weird situation, sorry if its a little confusing since i usually have gut feelings about things and just go with it, but this one i dont wanna fark up this one..

    i met this HB9 while at my friend megs house (megs roomate is the HBs friend).. at the time she was in a long term relationship but there was a lot of flirting between both of us.. lot of push pull and neggin on both our ends..

    out of the blue, two days ago she messages me on facebook. we chit chat a bit, again negging a little bit, played a nice alpha male position and told her im getting off-line and to just text me and gave her my number.. seconds later i get her texting me.. she tells me how she got dumped last night.. we talk a little more and i tell her to come visit me at work (im a bartender)... she give give resistance, and i tell her well i gotta go to work, and hope to see her later..

    i have a good feeling about the girl diggin me from all the flirting/chatting via FB and text, so when i go into work, i see my friend meg.. i told her that im gonna try and bag a new hottie and that she knows the girl.. i told her who it was, and she said i should go for it.. she also said she noticed that the HB was responding well the first time i met her... so i filled her in with what i just told you guys, and she says good luck trying to get her to come in to see me.. meg goes home to her apartment, and not even a half hour later, she texts me saying that her, her roomate, and HB are gonna come in a visit..

    HB called megs roomate saying she wanted to "hang out" and that they should go out to get some drinks.. so they come in with megs gf, and another mutual AFC... i

    i was crazy busy at work and had no real time to game or really talk to any of them, but meg told me that she "talked me up".. we made a lot of contact/smiling at eachother, and talked a little.. but i really couldnt do much since i was so busy.. i also had a wing at my bar drinking, told him the situation very quickly, and asked him to watch and he said it seemed like she was into me.. everyone left and the girls went out dancing for the night while i hadda finish up work..

    at the end of my shift, i texted her saying sorry that i wasnt as entertaining as i could have been, and asked how the night went after they left.. (bad move?) well she responded.. we talked a little more.. i also thanked her for giving me wayy too much money as a tip.. she said she did it cause no one would let her pay for her drinks.. i told her that she could take me out to dinner and pay if she wanted to complain about it.. she said "sure maybe before you leave me "(im moving from NJ to FL at the end of the year) talked more.. ended the convo since it was late at night...


    whats the move now?

    i do have plans with meg and her roomate this weekend to go out, and HB knows since me and the girls since i made the plans right in front of her... should i invite her out with us? should i talk to the roomate to ask her to come out so its not at threatening?

    HELP!!
    I don't think you should have apologized in your text but it seems like you recovered nicely. Nice job on ending the texting also. It seems like you are in. My opinion (I am no expert) is that you should build up more sexual tension like you have been and then isolate and f-close. I think she KNOWS you're moving, and she seems to be very attracted for you. She also just got dumped so more than likely she does not want anything serious. Be funny, cocky, and outgoing. then go for the close. I think you will get it. I think you should definitely get her out with you guys that night.

  3. #3
    soslick is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 92, Level: 1
    Level completed: 84%, Points required for next Level: 8
    Overall activity: 2.0%
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    22
    Points
    92
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: what to do next

    i have a rep of being kind of slutty we'll say, and she knows it.. i figured shes not looking for any commitment either.. i have waited a few days to text her again, shot her a text a few minutes ago, but shes at work.. ill post updates after the weekend if she flaked out or if she comes out and i score lol

  4. #4
    Fuser is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,653, Level: 33
    Level completed: 36%, Points required for next Level: 97
    Overall activity: 23.1%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    387
    Points
    2,653
    Level
    33
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    132

    Default Re: what to do next

    You're gold then man. So think about it, you have that reputation, and SHE MESSAGES YOU ) to tell you she got dumped.

  5. #5
    soslick is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 92, Level: 1
    Level completed: 84%, Points required for next Level: 8
    Overall activity: 2.0%
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    22
    Points
    92
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: what to do next

    again, i figured she wanted it.. but i just didnt wanna screw it up since when she came out to see me, it didnt go the way i planned.. i was busy as hell and another guy was with the group and it seemed like he was trying to get it also.. didnt seem like he had much game since he came out in sweats lol

  6. #6
    soslick is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 92, Level: 1
    Level completed: 84%, Points required for next Level: 8
    Overall activity: 2.0%
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    22
    Points
    92
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: what to do next

    so her friend calls me up and tells me she invited the girl out with us.. score.. the night comes, me and the two girls i know go out for dinner and wait for our other friends to get outta work for us all to pregame.. HB calls and says shes not coming out because shes too tired from work.. HBs friend tells me that its typical of her to flake and shes "all talk".. womp.. so thanks for the advice, but i guess it wasnt gonna happen since shes just a flake to all of her friends..

  7. #7
    Fuser is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,653, Level: 33
    Level completed: 36%, Points required for next Level: 97
    Overall activity: 23.1%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    387
    Points
    2,653
    Level
    33
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    132

    Default Re: what to do next

    Oh well, just wait for the next opportunity. Maybe you need to start hitting on some other girls in the circle. Create a sense of urgency. I think the fact that she's recently single probably plays a factor. He still owns her mind lol.

  8. #8
    hyp
    hyp is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 6,354, Level: 52
    Level completed: 2%, Points required for next Level: 196
    Overall activity: 80.0%
    Achievements:
    Social5000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Australia ==> Melbourne
    Posts
    946
    Points
    6,354
    Level
    52
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    309

    Default Re: what to do next in this weird situation

    good effort, it's good even to have the game plan ready and not use it because it'll be suitable for another situation down the track (with adaptions of course )

    but seriously why did you apologise for not being entertaining, who said you were the entertainer?

  9. #9
    soslick is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 92, Level: 1
    Level completed: 84%, Points required for next Level: 8
    Overall activity: 2.0%
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    22
    Points
    92
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: what to do next in this weird situation

    im a bartender.. im supposed to "entertain everyone"..everyone makes mistakes lol


Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com