so i work with this girl, not directly but at the same place. i was really interested but seemingly been friendzoned, we went out to a movie once, she brought a friend to dinner and then wouldnt kiss me after the movie.
she's flaked a few times since then and pulled some weird stuff asking me to do a favor for her that crossed the line a little with me.
so ive kind of freezed her out, im not inviting her out anytime soon and i havent been initiating any chatting on facebook (she was chatting me up all the time)
today she sent me a facebook message along the lines of (i live in colombia so it was in spanish) you dont want to say hi to me.....now i have been not seeking this girl out but the few times I have run into her at work I've said hello and smiled but I stopped seeking her out and stopped all Kino, just a hello. and really there's been no opportunity ot have a conversation either, so its not like I'm being rude.
anyways how should I respond to this? I was thinking of just playing dumb and if she accuses me of being upset telling her she has an active imagination. I'm pretty sure she knows exactly what's going on, I made my interest pretty obvious and there are some pictures of me up on facebook wiht a girl I've hung out with over the last week or so.
wow that ended up being kind of long, but any advice would be appreciated....basic ally how to not say "no, I'm not upset, everything is totally cool with you flaking and sending mixed signals but not doing anything" but also not showing it has affected me.