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Thread: Do you ever get frustrated as you improve?

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    Default Do you ever get frustrated as you improve?

    Here's what is going on with me...

    After joining the PUA community I realized what an AFC I've been and all the things I've been doing wrong. So I took it upon myself to change that and that's exactly what I did. After doing my homework and educating myself, I've met and interacted with more women that I've ever dreamed of. And that's where it stopped..."met and interacted". The more I educated myself, the more I realized how little I knew. I'm not sure if it's a rough month or what, but lately I've met women I'd like to turn into GFs but it never goes anywhere!

    Here are the most frustrating things that happen to me:
    1) We go on dates and it doesn't lead to anything
    2) Texting is terrible....they reply every hour or two after reading my text.
    3) I'm always the one initiating a conversation
    4) Can't get the girl to invest
    5) They just randomly go cold and can't get a response out of them

    Anybody else had issues like this before or am just going crazy?

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    Default Re: Do you ever get frustrated?

    Definitely. You are not the only one homie. As men, we are the ones who have to face being turned down or ignored by women. It is part of being a man. Keep on trying, keep on working on yourself. Don't base your perception of yourself on what some woman who you just met might think of you. She has no idea! And you have no idea what her reason might be for not continuing the relationship with you. It could be a ton of things that have nothing to do with you.

    Persist. Work on yourself. Hold your self-worth inside of you. Don't give up. That's what it means to be a real man.

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    Default Re: Do you ever get frustrated?

    May sound cliche, but you really won't get this in a month. I've been studying over 3 years and only a few months ago do I now feel comfortable with all that I know.

    Be patient and persistent. Keep reflecting and rereading your material and never confine yourself because you don't feel solid yet. You will get there my friend.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Do you ever get frustrated?

    Thanks guys I know deep down that this is just a rough patch because I HAVE met women that I've had an amazing connection with (physically and emotionally) but at the same time I can't help but feel like I've fucked up somewhere when women do not respond.

    How do you deal with that? Just plow through it and don't let it phase you?

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    Default Re: Do you ever get frustrated?

    Of course it'll phase you. Yes keep plowing. Treat everything as a learning experience. Almost like a video game. Takes time to master the game.
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