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Thread: So I'm bad at this, but gave it my all...

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    Default So I'm bad at this, but gave it my all...

    ...and nothing but the "Bitch Shield" all night. Couldn't get more than a 2 word response all night, and nothing too pleasant.

    I acted like a didn't give a fuck, but by the 5th girl I was pretty beaten down and called it a night. What can a beginner do about this?

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    Default Re: So I'm bad at this, but gave it my all...

    Simply go back over your material and reflect on your night. There may be some things you missed. Such as with body language.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: So I'm bad at this, but gave it my all...

    Idk, maybe I'm just not cut out for the club scene. I don't think a single girl made eye contact with me the entire night without me walking up to them first. I just don't get it...

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    Default Re: So I'm bad at this, but gave it my all...

    Well we're you prowling? Hanging with friends? Laughing and having a good time? How about dress style.
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    Default Re: So I'm bad at this, but gave it my all...

    prowling, unfortunately I pretty much have to go out solo, but I kept trying to make eye contact and smile at girls I was interested in, didn't get much feedback.

    My dress style is pretty much really nice jeans, button down long-sleeve collared shirt, Nike's (about a $400 outfit).

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    Default Re: So I'm bad at this, but gave it my all...

    Hmm did you sip your drink alone for a while before you made a move? Its important to open a set as close as possible to entering the place in my opinion... Establishes that you know people here to surrounding sets. Also dont approach from the back, always smile, lean back while u talk to her, and dont directly square your shoulders with her... Offset a little to make her earn you attention.

    Weve all had nights like that player... Just takes time. Hope this helps.

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    Default Re: So I'm bad at this, but gave it my all...

    Yea, well for the first couple I sat a few seats away and sipped my drink slowly before trying to make a move. That's what I usually do when starting out the night to relieve a bit of anxiety before approaching anyone. I guess that's not a very good idea then. The last couple I was just going for broke and walking up to random girls, lol.

    Oh, and I always approach from the front. I would feel awkward approaching from the back. But thanks for the tips

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    Default Re: So I'm bad at this, but gave it my all...

    Try this exercise:

    Follow the 3 second rule. Don't just cherry pick groups. Open EVERYONE.

    That doesn't mean try to have a conversation with them. That's not what openers do. Openers "open" people TO conversation. So walk by and throw a quick compliment about someone's shirt or hair. Especially the guys. Keep walking by them and do the same thing with the next group and just walk around the place like you OWN it and they are ALL your guests. It's your place so it's your job to make sure everyone is having a good time.

    Finally go to your favorite bartender and open the person next to you. I don't care if it's a 60 year old man. Open him. Become the ultimate social bug.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: So I'm bad at this, but gave it my all...

    calibrate.. i've really noticed that some girls shoot material down other girls love. And if your direct approach doesn't work, try doing some indirect approaches first to get some confidence


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