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Thread: I Just Simply Don't Know What To Do

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    Default I Just Simply Don't Know What To Do

    Alright, I don't want to seem conceited, but I consider myself fairly good looking (not close to a 10, but above average). I don't say this because I love myself, I say it because I've gotten the "you're so cute/you're so handsome" complinment from tons of different kinds of people, and I get ioi's after barely introducing myself. But the problem is I simply don't know what the hell I'm supposed to say to girls I'm attracted to. For example: This pretty cute girl from the Middle East approached me while I was watching football (American) and in a sort of flirtacious way asked me to explain it to her. It was kind of obvious she had no interest in the Fighting Irish, but that didn't stop me from boringly explaining the basics, which was followed by a slightly less boring conversation about what we did Friday night, and then silence. She's barely shown interest since.

    Any tips on what I could have done to turn that situation into something?
    Sorry, I know this is a big question, but I'm just clueless and frustrated.

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    Default Re: I Just Simply Don't Know What To Do

    I would tease her right off the bat. When she asked, u could have said, 'i dont know... this game is tough to understand. Are u sure u can handle it?'

    Then describe whats happening on the field as it happens... dont just give a lecture. This way u can ask her about herself inbetween plays. And u can make up funny stuff to see if she is payinng attention. Then tease her saying that she is hitting on u.

    Ex...'so this guy is throwing the ball because its going to explode in five seconds if he doesnt. (Her: really?) wow! cant believe u fell for that ! I think you
    really dont want to learn football... i think you just came here to ask for my number!'
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
    Oscar Wilde


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    Default Re: I Just Simply Don't Know What To Do

    I would say to most guys starting out with learning how to talk to girls. You must learn to tease them, I'm not talking about the classic old school type of negs. I mean having a "playful vibe" alot of this can be achieved through your non-verbal communication:

    i.e.

    Smiling

    eye- contact

    clear voice tonalty

    pausing when you talk and listening well to what the girl says

    You must remember it's not about a specific line or routine? it's more about your behaviour as a man.. adopt the alpha male traits and your say the right thing's eventually.

    Quick example... so the girl is talking to you about anything.. you can say to her randomly stop for a sec... your so cute when your talking fast.. your like a little cat...this is very cheeky and plaful and the girl will love it..well most girls will...

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    Default Re: I Just Simply Don't Know What To Do

    Yeah man just remember to be confident and don't be afraid to tease her once and a while. negging is fine too, but don't go overboard.


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