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    owen17 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question Where to go from here with girl I've wanted for 2 years

    Basically I've been wanting this girl for about 2 years now We don't really know each other so well. We've talked before but only causal conversations nothing personal.

    I'm also in a difficult position because we have conflicting class schedules so I barely see her.

    Anyways

    Sometime around last week I took the sweet guy approach and told her I liked her and that she's beautiful, she blushed and said I was sweet.

    I've talked to her since then nothing much just a little chit chat.

    So where do I take it from here? Do i continue with the casual conversations? She really means alot to me so I don't want to make any wrong moves. She's also a pretty nice girl so she's not gonna blow me off still I don't know if she's just being nice or if she's interested...

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    Default Re: Where to go from here with girl I've wanted for 2 years

    Well, What you need to do my good friend, is branch out.
    Here's one thing you do not need to do. DO NOT TELL HER YOU HAVE BEEN WANTING HER FOR 2 YEARS!!!

    That will come off very creepy and will scare her away. You'll fall in stalker/creeper zone. You sound like you have your scope directly and only on her. You need to take risk and get closer to her. Right now you are in the friend zone. I may not be telling you exactly what you need to do, but I will tell you what you do not need to do and suggest things.

    Why aren't you trying to talk to different girls?
    Because sometimes when you put too much focus on one girl,
    you may come on tooooo strong and look bad and fuck your game all the way up. Also, if you fail, you are going to want to wish you didn't try and it will hit you hard. You need to get comfortable with multiple chicks and you need to make more progress faster, and stop overthinking, because the chances of you fucking up will be higher.

    My 2 cents though.

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    Default Re: Where to go from here with girl I've wanted for 2 years

    Use the Push/Pull technique in which you have started by giving a compliment but now you should use a neg. With this method you have to have a balance of interest and disinterest otherwise you will either become a good friend or she will want nothing to do with you. Yes you like her but donít show too much interest to quickly and keep doing things that interest you, and showing her that you have a life outside of her. Some guys show too much interest at first and then the girl is turned off because they come off as too needy or desperate which can happen in this case because you have been wanting her for two years. Be mysterious (not revealing to much of yourself) use Kino when talking to make a emotional connection (nothing creepy) but maybe a light touch on the hand and if no resistance keep escalating. Read some of the resources on this site to develop your text game once you get the number. T-Mal and Topgun have some good texts manuals read them it will be worth your time.

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    owen17 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Where to go from here with girl I've wanted for 2 years

    Alright guys thanks I'll put these into action


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