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    ShitOnAuto is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Changing Your State of Mind

    These openers are very clever and helpful, but they just mask the person you really are.

    Sometimes I'll see a girl waiting to be approached and think "oh, what opener can I use on her?" I'd like to be able to just spit out something cute and intriguing on the spot. Something meaningful based on that moment we're about to share. I hate standing/sitting there and computing.

    I'm in a slump right now after screwing up this one opportunity I recently had (i mean it was practically bow tied and handed to me on a silver platter and i fucked it up).

    I need to change my state of mind. I take things very personal and I guess I have a big ego in general. Its like a feeling of anger when I can't control a situation.

    Any ideas? Maybe a book?

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    acepace is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Changing Your State of Mind

    I can most definately relate to this. I asked a similar question before and will be looking forward to what the experts have to say here.

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    Default Re: Changing Your State of Mind

    I usually don't focus on using opening lines that others came up with. What I do is, create opening opportunities to talk to them by using the environment, a situation, and them!

    Infact, the only opener ive used was "Hey, can I get your opinion on something?
    Alright, so Ninjas or Pirates?"
    The opener worked no doubt and I used this one because I found it cool.
    Not as a cheat code to unlock interest. Don't get me wrong, its not bad for anyone just starting,
    but you have to find creativity and ways to express your personality so that you can open with your uniqueness and stop using generic lines, because these women will catch you slipping eventually.

    I do subbconciously question myself "Do I show my character well enough to be unique?".
    I am pretty sure (hopefully I am right) that a Expert will come and drop off very useful info to you.
    I just gave my two cents but maybe you'll pick something from it.


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