These openers are very clever and helpful, but they just mask the person you really are.
Sometimes I'll see a girl waiting to be approached and think "oh, what opener can I use on her?" I'd like to be able to just spit out something cute and intriguing on the spot. Something meaningful based on that moment we're about to share. I hate standing/sitting there and computing.
I'm in a slump right now after screwing up this one opportunity I recently had (i mean it was practically bow tied and handed to me on a silver platter and i fucked it up).
I need to change my state of mind. I take things very personal and I guess I have a big ego in general. Its like a feeling of anger when I can't control a situation.
Any ideas? Maybe a book?