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Thread: If a girl shows some interest in me, should I show my interest in her, too?

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    Default If a girl shows some interest in me, should I show my interest in her, too?

    If a girl shows some interest in me, should I show my interest in her, too? Maybe I should reward her? I've heard that we should reward a girl for her behavior which we want and punish a girl for her behavior which we don't want(like). Or should I pretend that I am indifferent and I don't care? A girl showed some interest in me, but I didn't show my interest back to her, instead, I pretended to be cold and not interested in her interest in me, I think subconsciously I wanted to convey a message to her, "I'm desirable, so I am not interested in you." In the past, when I showed my interest in a girl, which I often did, they also took it as granted and thought that they were more desirable and didn't give a sh*t to my interest in her, but of course on the surface they still behaved politely. Any ideas?

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    Default Re: If a girl shows some interest in me, should I show my interest in her,

    If you want to get to know the girl you're going to have to talk to her. I'd say that's showing interest. Don't make it obvious and don't accept any shit test.

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    Default Re: If a girl shows some interest in me, should I show my interest in her,

    treat her as a friend. Thats engaging her but also not showing her too much interest.
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