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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    Lol this brings me to the next problem, these women are usually looking down, or off to the side, in their own little world. Not really sure how to deal with that. Its probably just a frame issue though, do you think?

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    Yeah no use in fretting over a girl who hasn't looked up long enough to realize that you even exist. You can nudge her...that's what I do and teach guys in bars or other public places. If you're in class or on a bus/train you take the ballsy approach and simply throw a balled up pieced of paper or gum wrapper at her, just to get her attention. elementary school style. LoL. I'd do it cuz I know I can make it fun.. And because I could care less what she thinks of me... Haven't had to do that yet but it sounds like a fun experiment, lol. Almost anything is possible when you smile and make it fun.

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    yea the problem is that in my city a lot of women are super bitchy and act like your being intrusive whenever you do try to get their attention. Thats why I need some serious frame building, and yes I could stand to be able to make things fun no matter what.

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    Also, what I would really really really love to know how to deal with, is women who, h eadphones are not, are off in their own world, and look unhappy. I wont get involved witha woman who is ranting and raving or acting angry. But there are hot women who oftentimes arent smiling and just dont look like they are in the best mood, which of course makes them harder to approach, namely because I just dont know what to do to make any given situation fun, especially one that is originally not fun, namely because they might be thinking unhappy thoughts or something.

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    by the way kors I did send youa personal message like you suggested. I'm definately going to try asking women what they are listening to as well, thank you for suggesting that. Lol I just need to build frame like I said, because that entails stopping them if they are walking, or deviating their attention from whatever they are doing, and making it seem totally natural and cool that I some random guy am asking them what they are listening to, and again women in myc ity are very guarded because we have a very high crime rate and most cold approaches are done by hustlers, or muggers lol.

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    Cool, I tried to send you a response Sorcerer333, but it said your inbox is full, so it wont let me send you a message until you make space.

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    Quote Originally Posted by SexualSorcerer333 View Post
    Also, what I would really really really love to know how to deal with, is women who, h eadphones are not, are off in their own world, and look unhappy. I wont get involved witha woman who is ranting and raving or acting angry. But there are hot women who oftentimes arent smiling and just dont look like they are in the best mood, which of course makes them harder to approach, namely because I just dont know what to do to make any given situation fun, especially one that is originally not fun, namely because they might be thinking unhappy thoughts or something.
    How about you use a fun and lighthearted opener, like the ESP routine? It always gets massively positive reactions when you get the numbers. Even if you fail, you can turn it into a joke and laugh about it and proceed to start talking to her
    Or just go direct? Sometimes a genuine compliment will light up her day. You'll be the guy who made her day, and that will probably go a long way.
    I mean, if I was feeling down, I'd definitely love it if someone told me I looked amazing.

    As for earphones, I think going direct is the best way. Preopen, smile, go direct

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    I just tried something yesterday that was hilariously effective.

    My Fiancee Laura & I were out shopping & she saw one of her friends. (Who happened to have ear buds / headphones in)
    I hadn't met this particular friend before, so I told Laura to stand out of sight & I'd go get her attention... AND to watch me razz her for a minute.

    So, I walk up & stop next to her friend & pretend I'm looking at something in the same section.

    THEN.... I reach over & just take one of the ear buds out, put it up to my ear to listen & say, "Soooo... do you always listen to your kid's playlist?"

    She turned red & started smiling / giggling...

    After a few more seconds of teasing, I told her why I came over & pointed to Laura down the aisle.

    But the bold, direct approach of just taking the ear bud out, was pretty effective.

    You have to be confident if you do it though. (I was, because I wasn't concerned with the outcome; seeing as I wasn't actually trying to pick her up, but rather, just went in with a humorous attitude.)



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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    I walk up to them and pretend like I'm screaming and gesturing at them like sh1t's going down so it triggers them to take off their headphones.

    Sohan:*Gesturing heavily like Godzilla's coming to attack*

    For real, this one is definitely my favorite. I pretend that I'm screaming at her and point to the sun or something like it's about to blow up, then she takes of her headphones and I'm all, "Nah, I was just playin with you. I'm Cody."

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