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    Default What do you do when she has headphones in?

    More and more when I see girls I want to approach I will get close only to find that their ears are already full! hahaha. What do you do when a girl has headphones in? (and you have a limited frame...)

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    Hmm, I've never tried it but I guess you would have two options. One, just somehow indicate that you want to talk to her and she'll take them out, then say what you were going to say. Or two, think of something fun to say about the headphones. Whatever you do, do it confidently and it should work.

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    Great question....i would like to start approachin women at the gym when i work out but sometimes ill b to in the zone that i forget to look up lol yes how can u make a move when the ears are being blasted

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    *taps shoulder*
    *she takes them out*
    *serious face, as if saying something important*
    PUA: "They're towing your car outside."
    HB: "WHAT!?!"
    PUA: "Nah, I just thought you were cute and came over to talk to you ...[stack to dhv or light neg or potential disqualifier]"
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    Now, this one is not mine so I don't take credit for it, I forgot where I saw it (but I have tried it before and it works beautifully)
    Anyway assuming you have a notepad or a smartphone with a drawing app, you draw a tic-tac-toe board and just hand it to her and SMILE
    She'll likely comply and play tic-tac-toe, then directly after you can make the gesture that teachers make when they want you to pull your headphones out (reach up to your ear with two fingers then pinch and pull away
    If you win you can say something like"Don't feel bad, I'm not the world champion for no reason hahaha" and easily escalate to some casual convo/banter from there.

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    what if she is not at the gym or stationary? What if she is walking down the street?

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    I walk up to them and pretend like I'm screaming and gesturing at them like shit's going down so it triggers them to take off their headphones.

    Sohan:*Gesturing heavily like Godzilla's coming to attack*
    HB: *Removes headphones* What going on??
    Sohan: *laughing* You had a cute smile and I wanted to come talk to you but since you where being antisocial I'm not sure about you, anyway... *stack for dhv*
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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    hmmm ok. I think I need to build frame.

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    You act confident and motion for them to take out their headphones with your hands. Then go into a direct opener. At least that's how I've done it, did it, am doing it.

    Example: Girl at the gym...I could tell she was checking me out from the corner of my eye. When she went to grab a weight near me I intercepted her and took out my headphones and started talking, she did the same and we started talking. Approaching and opening is easy, it's keeping her interested that's hard.

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    Default Re: What do you do when she has headphones in?

    Easy Bro. Look at the Girl directly in her eyes, smile, and ask her what she's listening to. This works in any environment day or night. It also starts the interaction off on a topic you can both vibe on: music.


    If you need more details on this type of opener, or advice on what to say and do afterward to get the number, send me an email or PM.


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