Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 6 of 6
  1. #1
    jingfunny is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 189, Level: 3
    Level completed: 78%, Points required for next Level: 11
    Overall activity: 15.2%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Asia
    Posts
    84
    Points
    189
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    16

    Default How do you disqualify yourself?

    How do you usually disqualify yourself when you approach a set? If the set is more than one, then we don't have to disqualify ourselves since we don't talk to our target at the beginning, right?

  2. #2
    Autismus's Avatar
    Autismus is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 10,566, Level: 68
    Level completed: 29%, Points required for next Level: 284
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social10000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    New Orleans, LA
    Posts
    903
    Points
    10,566
    Level
    68
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    473

    Default Re: How do you disqualify yourself?

    Use an FTC at the start (this will set them at ease so they won't think you're trying to intrude. But then disqualify yourself after you have dhv'd (ignore, tease and DHV)
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

  3. #3
    jingfunny is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 189, Level: 3
    Level completed: 78%, Points required for next Level: 11
    Overall activity: 15.2%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Asia
    Posts
    84
    Points
    189
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    16

    Default Re: How do you disqualify yourself?

    Quote Originally Posted by Autismus View Post
    Use an FTC at the start (this will set them at ease so they won't think you're trying to intrude. But then disqualify yourself after you have dhv'd (ignore, tease and DHV)
    I have a problem with FTC. Don't you feel guilty of using it because it is a lie?Also if you approach a set, "I'm going to leave in 2 minutes". Two minutes later, you don't leave, so people in the set may think on their mind,"You said that you were going to leave in 2 minutes. Why do you still stay here? What's your real purpose?"

  4. #4
    Ra1d is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,477, Level: 22
    Level completed: 77%, Points required for next Level: 23
    Overall activity: 5.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Posts
    185
    Points
    1,477
    Level
    22
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    74

    Default Re: How do you disqualify yourself?

    Quote Originally Posted by jingfunny View Post
    I have a problem with FTC. Don't you feel guilty of using it because it is a lie?Also if you approach a set, "I'm going to leave in 2 minutes". Two minutes later, you don't leave, so people in the set may think on their mind,"You said that you were going to leave in 2 minutes. Why do you still stay here? What's your real purpose?"
    Because it's interesting to stay,didn't this ever happen to you for real,where you don't have time,but you're busy talking to your buddies,or doing something you can't immediately stop and leave ?So you end up staying more than planned,sometimes you end up staying MUCH more than planned.


    It's simple really,if everything goes well and everybody's interested(including the set),then there's no reason they should think anything about you having to leave,if it doesn't go well,this is a good excuse to eject.

  5. #5
    jingfunny is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 189, Level: 3
    Level completed: 78%, Points required for next Level: 11
    Overall activity: 15.2%
    Achievements:
    100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Asia
    Posts
    84
    Points
    189
    Level
    3
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    16

    Default Re: How do you disqualify yourself?

    One concern I have is that if a man approaches a woman showing that he is not sexually interested in her, the woman may not be sexually interested in him, either. She may not associate sex with him on her mind, so later he will probably become just an acquaintance or friend. Can you address my concern?

  6. #6
    Ra1d is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,477, Level: 22
    Level completed: 77%, Points required for next Level: 23
    Overall activity: 5.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Posts
    185
    Points
    1,477
    Level
    22
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    74

    Default Re: How do you disqualify yourself?

    Quote Originally Posted by jingfunny View Post
    One concern I have is that if a man approaches a woman showing that he is not sexually interested in her, the woman may not be sexually interested in him, either. She may not associate sex with him on her mind, so later he will probably become just an acquaintance or friend. Can you address my concern?
    There's a good guide somewhere on these forums,how to not end up in the friend zone.

    Don't build too much comfort,don't forget to neg/Flirt,basic Pua stuff,you should read around.


Similar Threads

  1. Best respond when girls disqualify you?
    By slumlord in forum General Questions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 02-16-2011, 08:53 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com