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Thread: dont over think things, does it show you are a real man?

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    Default dont over think things, does it show you are a real man?

    ok I have read a post or two about how u r not supposed to over think things. Is this because u r supposed to give off The Vibe that u r a rl man and dont give a fark? Or is it because u will just fark things up if u do? Personally as someone starting off I don't always know what do in the moment, and I get anxiety. Sometimes it is nice to have a plan.

    Any advice?

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    Default Re: dont over think things, does it show you are a real man?

    I find that overthinking things gives off The Vibe that you're nervous and are trying too hard "not to screw it up"....just go with the flow and you won't come off as insecure

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    Default Re: dont over think things, does it show you are a real man?

    [Opinion]

    True masculinity is giving every f*ck in the world, but only about things that are your responsibility.

    I was just having this conversation with new member Brodeisel. The only thing better than pretending something is the actual action itself. Pretending to be busy is not as good as actually being busy. Pretending to have abundance is not as good as actually having abundance. However, I only say better in the sense that it is more practical for the general population. You don't have to have abundance, it's just a lot easier to get the Mindset when you do. Most people can't find the mental state without actually going to that place, which is only natural and reasonable.

    The truth is most of our counter measures to emotional responses are just emotionally numbing, not transcending. It's a bandaid on the real problem that can only be solved in your thoughts.

    It should be a requirement for every man to read Emerson.
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    Default Re: dont over think things, does it show you are a real man?

    id rather think emotional than logical cuz thats what ppl remember
    dont overthink. If u do youll just end up with hesitation and act wussy.
    Its easier to just think with emotions

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    Default Re: dont over think things, does it show you are a real man?

    Quote Originally Posted by CarlosBoid View Post
    is it because u will just fark things up if u do? Personally as someone starting off I don't always know what do in the moment, and I get anxiety.

    Any advice?
    Anxiety comes from thinking. The answer above is what you're looking for.

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    Default Re: dont over think things, does it show you are a real man?

    When I first got into Pickup Arts I spent the first year treating everything as my fault.

    I don't regret it because it's how I got the most out of my training. It's easy to walk away from a woman or make an excuse for why you couldn't get her.

    It's only when I learned and got better that I realized that certain things were out of my hand. But I wouldn't have gotten that far if I didn't treat everything as my fault in the first place. It's a process that you have to respect so take your time.

    My suggestion? Treat everything as your fault. You'll know when it's not eventually..
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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