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    cire113 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Approaching Strangers in general...

    Quote Originally Posted by Supremo View Post
    Well the bonus is you are definitely learning. Be careful with negs as they can backfire just as quickly as they can work well(as you experienced).

    What I'm trying to get at is that you say you triple negged her and she threatened to call security. I feel you could of picked up on the first or even 2nd neg that it wasn't working. At that point you should of dropped the negging altogether or you should of spaced them out more. Negging more then once in short succession will seldom work IMO. Be careful what you neg about as well because you could be negging about something that she is very self-conscious about,ie her height,weight, ect.

    When you say you totally broke her down I HOPE you don't mean it in a bragging manner because that is not cool.

    Take it as a learning curve though

    This is where i guess i need to pay more attention and calibrate.. Plus the girl was already showing me ioi's .. Negging was completely unnecessary !


    I wasn't bragging about breaking her down i felt horrible about it and it actually ruined the rest of my day; I'm very sensitive to peoples feelings and my own; I swear I'm like a girl with emotions..


    But yeah man great advice thanks

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    Default Re: Approaching Strangers in general...

    negs are not necessary unless the girl is totally on some super "I'm the shizzle" kind of deal, which I've only seen happen in nightclubs or parties where she was the center of attention. Haven't yet seen a girl I needed to neg in day game

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    Default Re: Approaching Strangers in general...

    Quote Originally Posted by cire113 View Post
    This is where i guess i need to pay more attention and calibrate.. Plus the girl was already showing me ioi's .. negging was completely unnecessary !


    I wasn't bragging about breaking her down i felt horrible about it and it actually ruined the rest of my day; I'm very sensitive to peoples feelings and my own; I swear I'm like a girl with emotions..


    But yeah man great advice thanks

    Haha I'm the same when it comes ladies emotions until a point when I realize that they know they can get away with using them to their benefit. But that's only happened in LTRs. At least you've learned now and I agree negging I. day game is not needed because ladies aren't expecting to be hit on and their bitch shields aren't normally up


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