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Thread: Daygame is always direct?

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    Default Daygame is always direct?

    Heres what I've honestly realized in my 2 days in the field of day game;

    anytime u approach a girl ALONE and talk to her and your a stranger 99% of the time the girl is thinking "why is this guys motive? why is he talking to me? He's hitting on me"

    Ive tried approach during the day game with indirect approach but i feel like might as well go direct??


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    Yesterday i saw HB 7 walking towards me; right as she passed i said excuse me "asked for directions" when indirect; had decent conversation; but soon she realized it was more than just "asking for directions"

    looked at her watch said she was late for class and just left; I honestly do believe she had to go to class but Im trying to analyze what exactly happened; I know for sure she was attracted to me but somehow messed up

    THe problem i think was going from indirect question to being too serious and asking stuff about herself; STuipd questions typical AFC

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    Default Re: Daygame is always direct?

    the key to going indirect like that is to keep the convo short, throw in an ftc (wich can easily be that you need to go to where-ever you asked for directions to) something like "i can't stay long but..." is a great way of suggesting that you are buisy and realy can't stay long. be sure to go for a quick n-close (if you use the ftc stick with it and set up a date later) the best n-close out their is http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...ber-close.html btw if you think you created enough attraction, always go for the n-close

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    Default Re: Daygame is always direct?

    I was thinking more of the lines how to make it a longer interaction;

    THe problem I'm facing is as i transition from the indirect opener to something more direct the girl senses that and wants to just leave because now she knows I'm not just asking her a random question..

    Also i feel like after 1 or 2 mins she is attracted to me but maybe i don't even know her name and ALTHOUGH she likes me going for the number right away will be a turn off and awkward/weird;; so its like i know she's attacted and likes me but i haven't built enough rapport/comfort for the phone number thing to be sudden and strange

    But yeah the FTC is a great thing i always use with anyone I'm talking to even if i know the interaction might be long

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    Default Re: Daygame is always direct?

    ALTHOUGH she likes me going for the number right away will be a turn off and awkward/weird;;
    it will only be weird if you make it weird. girls give their numbers to complete strangers all the time. how do you think every guy who's ever slept with her got her number? they didn't get it by worying about how "awekward" it would make things now did they? you need to stop worrying about what these girls will think about you. after all you don't even know them and you probably won't ever see them again if you don't get the number

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    Default Re: Daygame is always direct?

    Quote Originally Posted by cire113 View Post
    I was thinking more of the lines how to make it a longer interaction;

    THe problem I'm facing is as i transition from the indirect opener to something more direct the girl senses that and wants to just leave because now she knows I'm not just asking her a random question..
    You are transitioning from an indirect opening to something more direct. And it doesn't work for you. Then stop doing it and try something else!

    You can go on playing indirectly. And if the girl or group has hooked on the interaction, they won't be likely to leave. The exception here is if they are in a hurry.

    Also i feel like after 1 or 2 mins she is attracted to me but maybe i don't even know her name and ALTHOUGH she likes me going for the number right away will be a turn off and awkward/weird;; so its like i know she's attacted and likes me but i haven't built enough rapport/comfort for the phone number thing to be sudden and strange
    Don't go for her # before establishing at least some comfort with her! Maybe you'll get it, but you won't get a day-2 this way. Maybe she is attracted to you, but that's not enough (in most cases) for her to be convinced for a date.

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    Default Re: Daygame is always direct?

    Don't go for her # before establishing at least some comfort with her!
    close, but what i would say is, don't go for for her number without establishing attraction, you don't need to introduce alot of comfort in the begining of a relationship (if she is attracted you realy don't need much any comfort at all to get the number) birls give their numbers out alll the time to anyone who generates a positive vibe before asking for the number. remember, comfort comes later, attraction is way more important (comfort without attraction= friendzone)

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    Default Re: Daygame is always direct?

    Couldn't agree more on that, but from my point of view it's better to establish some comfort before going for her #.

    I'm just saying that attraction with no comfort will most probably result in a #close, just like you said. But attraction with a little bit comfort coming afterwards, is much more of a "sure bet".

    If you can get a #close 80% (random number) of the time with just running attraction on your target, it's possible for the percentage to spike to 95% (again, the number is random) if you get into comfort after attracting her.


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    Default Re: Daygame is always direct?

    about the sure bet thing, did you check out the link i posted earlier in this thread about Kino's 95% Number Close? i literaly have never had a girl refuse to give me her number using it. it works so well that i can get numbers with extremely low effort,
    (i literally walked up to a girl introduced myself, asked her what her name was, she told me and as she told me i put her name in my phone and got her number) but i do suggest putting more effort into it than just that (because if you don't at least get a little bit of raport then she will flake) kino's n-close almost works too well.


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