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    Default How to make women comfortable with your approach?

    Ok so i"m learning most women aren't bitches.. they just act like bitches when you approach them the wrong way..


    So what is the best way to approach women to make them comfortable to lower there shields?

    Im speaking mostly Daygame

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    Default Re: How to make women comfortable with your approach?

    Confidence.

    If they see that you're nervous talking to them,you're most likely out.They're not interested in boring Fluff talk with a shy guy who barely breathes.They expect men to take control and make their night interesting.


    The next would probably be,if they realize that you're gaming them.If you use an opener they've already heard,or you're talking too fast.

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    Default Re: How to make women comfortable with your approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ra1d View Post
    Confidence.

    If they see that you're nervous talking to them,you're most likely out.They're not interested in boring Fluff talk with a shy guy who barely breathes.They expect men to take control and make their night interesting.


    The next would probably be,if they realize that you're gaming them.If you use an opener they've already heard,or you're talking too fast.
    Im talking about day game bro; but Yeah i see what your saying;

    Maybe i need to talk slower; not give so much positive body language right away;


    How do girls always know if your nervous or not?

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    Default Re: How to make women comfortable with your approach?

    The ONLY way you can help women become "comfortable" with your approach is by you yourself ecoming comfortable with your approach. Or in other words being comfortable with yourself.

    Emotion is contagious. And human beings have tendency to "project" awkwardness or uncomfortable emotion onto each other subconsciously. Wikipedia "Psychological Projection" and you'll understand what I mean. Woman pick up on our vibe very quickly because they are biologically more emotionally observant than men. Google that too. If you are in any way nervous or uncomfortable, so will the women you are approaching - MOST of the time. Depending on the severity of your anxiety, ALL of the time. Might be something worth considering.

    There is also a possibility that particular women simply aren't comfortable with strangers in general, but as you've mentioned Cire113, most women are generally pretty nice. This has been my experience as well.

    One technique I used early on in my development and now something that I instruct guys on is counter-intuitive but surprisingly effective at minimizing social anxiety. Ready?

    Playfully accuse the Girl of being nervous. For example asking her with a genuine smile: "what, are you nervous??..." this fun accusation can lead to many different outcomes. All of them in my experience have been good outcomes.

    What's happening here? Well after first learning about the principles of "projection", I decided to leverage that element and turn it into a banter line. It takes female induced social anxiety and turns it into a strangely enjoyable basis for teasing and light conversation. And hey, sometimes a Girl will actually be nervous...It can be a relief to call her out on it and even admit to being nervous yourself...honest "vulnerability" can be attractive. Study up on some of the more popular Romantic Comedies and you'll see this dynamic in action. Women LOVE it.

    Feel free to email me if you want more ideas or details on my material!

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    Default Re: How to make women comfortable with your approach?

    I wasnt in my right Mindset once because i approached to validate myself to a group of "friends" Which ended up bad

    I ditched those people and joined other groups and so I did it alone and the reason was to make people happy.

    Every single approach was positive and ended well.
    theyll be comfortable the more comfortable you are and the more interesting you are and the more fun you are.

    I always approached interesting and fun instead of boring approaches. I once brought a rubber duck and said do you wanna touch my duck to girls.

    Also to just remind myself i dont give a crap what people think I brought a bottle of ketchup and sprayed it all over my hair at a group of random girls and said IM GANNA PROVE MY LOVE TO YOU, no one really laughed and everyone stared but i caught a couple smiles XD

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    Default Re: How to make women comfortable with your approach?

    Thank goodness fearlessly approaching, meeting, and starting conversations with any woman I wish is the ONE thing I've mastered when it comes to women. Not only that, but I ALWAYS make sure to establish some form of physical contact during a first encounter. I require hugs (no handshakes) and almos always hold hands on a first encounter (but this only works if done properly).

    Maybe I don't know a thing about texting or getting many dates or the difference between genuine and fake ioi's, but the one thing I can say is I (now) have the ability to approach, meet, and attempt to start fun, flirty, playful, and intriguing conversations with ALL types of women, even in group sets.

    I know this is odd, but.... it is what it is. I have an odd skill - and I'm thankful I managed to develop it!

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    Default Re: How to make women comfortable with your approach?

    Quote Originally Posted by Konnect Life View Post
    Thank goodness fearlessly approaching, meeting, and starting conversations with any woman I wish is the ONE thing I've mastered when it comes to women. Not only that, but I ALWAYS make sure to establish some form of physical contact during a first encounter. I require hugs (no handshakes) and almos always hold hands on a first encounter (but this only works if done properly).

    Maybe I don't know a thing about texting or getting many dates or the difference between genuine and fake ioi's, but the one thing I can say is I (now) have the ability to approach, meet, and attempt to start fun, flirty, playful, and intriguing conversations with ALL types of women, even in group sets.

    I know this is odd, but.... it is what it is. I have an odd skill - and I'm thankful I managed to develop it!
    Wow man thats great... but have any advice on this?

    What are some of the most important things you've learned about this


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