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    mnat123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Last chance to ask a girl out

    Hi guys,
    This is my first ever post and it is coming out of desperation. I "googled" this forum because i dont know who to ask for advice!

    Me: fourth year undergrad student, 6 feet 202 lbs, decent looking, medium tan complexion(middle eastern)
    The girl: 2nd year undergrad, 5'2"-5'4"ish, 120-140 lbs, good looking, asian(i believe shes chinese) Prof refers to her as "Panda"(she doesnt look like a bear)

    Well, i taking a 2nd year course to catch up on electives, in this course along with 15-20 more students is a girl named/called "Panda".
    I have never actually spoken to "Panda"! i am also very reserved in this class, however i am not a quiet or subtle person! i just feel awkward with younger students.
    Thursday is my last class and i want to ask this girl out! What should i do? should i speak to her after class? how should i try this? should i attempt to do this at all?

    I have never dated a girl that i didnt know personally, so this is very confusing, nor am i david beckam that girls pile up for me

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    Default Re: Last chance to ask a girl out

    Well u should have been flirting and making eye contact with her from the get go. But it's too late for that. Since you waited so long I guess the next best thing would be to just go up to her with an opener something like " damn I'm glad I'm outta this class" start a conversation. Make sure you make her laugh. Use negs then after all said and done. Say hey listen you seem like a cook person we should kick it sometime and have some laughs again. Haha then if she says sure why not ?? Go for the Number Close. The. Keep the convo going for another two minutes then peace out. ;p good luck buddy

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    Default Re: Last chance to ask a girl out

    just adding to Gmin's reply (which is the way you should be going), make sure you talk to her after class with this being said you'll definitely want to read up on "college game" and "day game" stuff just to get an idea of how things work, what's being provided is a quickfix solution

    and when you go for the N close after you're attractions been built, if you feel comfortable dropping the ::: should your number be in my phone? :::use that

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    Default Re: Last chance to ask a girl out

    Firstly, Thanks guys for the advice, it not only helps strategically but also contributes to my confidence!

    Secondly, I just read over my initial post and noticed that it was littered with spelling and grammatical mistakes! Yikes! I was just in a room full of people so i couldn't proof read.

    NOTE 1: I should have mentioned that this is a tutorial not a lecture, i dont attend lectures as the class is massive and notes are online.
    NOTE 2: Since this is the last tutorial, we will be getting our assignments back, what this means is that the TA likes to hand the assignments back at the end of the class, once your name is called you walk up to the front of the class and take your assignment and walk out, The TA doesnt like to discuss grades till 24hours!! this will make it hard to speak to the girl if i my name is called at the end and hers way before me.

    So, after mental mining, these are the options that i have found available to me;

    option 1: Speak to the TA and ask that she hands my assignment back second last only to the girls, this way i can speak to her right after class, have the added pressure of other class mates removed

    Option 2: Ask the entire class if they would like to make a study group for the final exam! This is a HIT or MISS situation, What if she says no and i am stuck with the everyone in the class but her and have to commit to the study group!


    PLEASE ADVISE ME ON WHAT TO DO! EXPLAIN MY SITUATION TO YOUR FEMALE FRIENDS AND SEE WHAT THEY WOULD LIKE A GUY TO DO.
    I HAVENT SPOKEN TO ANYONE ABOUT THIS YET, I HAVE A GENUINE FEAR OF REJECTION AND IF MY FRIENDS FIND OUT MY BROTHER WILL AS WELL, AND HE WILL MAKE MY LIFE A LIVING HELL

    Thanks guys, I wouldnt ask for so much help, but i really want to get to know this girl. ITS NOT SEXUAL

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    Default Re: Last chance to ask a girl out

    This is the most confident ish you could do. I've done this before and if I'm ever single again I'll be sure to do this sometime. Perfect if you have no time and simple enough for anyone to do.

    The secret to success with this opener/Number Close is in your body language. Move slow and deliberate. Look her DIRECTLY in the eye when you do this. It would be creepy if you DIDN'T look her in the eye. And lay out a smile for her.
    Write your number down and give it to her with the following line..

    "In case you feel like taking a chance."

    That's it!! Remember, the real power with this is in your body language.

    P.S. I also wrote down that my name was BatMan along with a little sketch of the symbol so she didn't know my real name until she called. That might've helped also.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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