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    Default When someone confronts you when you use an opener

    If I use the jealous girlfriend opener and I am rooting my opener, what if someone in the set, "You're lying. You're gaming on us. You want to pick up a girl in our group. Don't think I don't know that. You are a player, go away, please."
    How can I handle it?

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    Default Re: When someone confronts you when you use an opener

    You don't use the jealous girlfriend opener.
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    Default Re: When someone confronts you when you use an opener

    honestly i don't know why everyone is using all these famous openers..

    if you understand the structure of how openers work and the theme/story they portray;

    you can easily create all of your own unique openers

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    Default Re: When someone confronts you when you use an opener

    Quote Originally Posted by cire113 View Post
    honestly i don't know why everyone is using all these famous openers..

    if you understand the structure of how openers work and the theme/story they portray;

    you can easily create all of your own unique openers
    Is there a good book that can help me understand the principles behind every idea/actions in the pickup process?

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    Default Re: When someone confronts you when you use an opener

    Scripted openers are good for beginners that have no idea what to do, but your goal is to steer away from that stuff to make your own.

    If you use that one (don't recommend it because it's very popular) and someone calls you on it, we'll you obviously know you can't defend yourself saying you don't know what they are talking about. It'll make you look AFC and a liar. Next best thing?.... Own up to it.

    "Damn are you serious? My first night out with this stuff and already someone caught me. I guess it doesn't really work. Have you read the book? What do you think of it as a whole? "

    And you've just started another conversation thread. Credit to Neil Strauss.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: When someone confronts you when you use an opener

    Has anyone actually done this to you? Or are you talking hypothetically?

    Linking x

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    Default Re: When someone confronts you when you use an opener

    Hypothetically. I want to eliminate my limiting beliefs.

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    Default Re: When someone confronts you when you use an opener

    I agree with everyone here....Don't use the girlfriend opener.

    Like many have said, it's not about the opener but HOW you open the set...take 2 seconds outta your day and come up with an question people are on the fence about and use it!

    It's really that simple, by using a "popular" canned opener, you're setting yourself up for a greater chance of failure.

    Good luck bro!
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    Default Re: When someone confronts you when you use an opener

    Same way you deal with a girl trying to neg you. Take it to ridiculous extremes to show you couldn't care less. Just don't be phased or panic, that is a insta OUT.

    This actually happened to me btw. Still got a #close

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    Default Re: When someone confronts you when you use an opener

    Jing, have you read my frame control threads? I've seen this many times, just own it and ask them what you're supposed to say when you see someone you want to approach

    Like batman said, new conversation thread automatically

    And no one is that mean, they might say they heard something like that before, but that's about it

    I've done it many times when my wing had opened them jus a few minuts ago, and I still had fun with it
    I have an example in there where this happened
    http://www.puaforums.com/game/17574-...e-control.html
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