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    Default Field report - first sarge after reading pua material

    at first i tried some openers on 2 2 sets and a single set. (tried the perfume opener, handshake and jealous girlfriend)

    got blown away almost instantly, seemed inconsistent, prefabricated and cheesy, if you ask me

    after that i just went with something like hey there

    a girl came (friend of a friend) smalltalk for a few secs, successful neg. getting very mild IoI's, a little more smalltalk, i take her someplace quieter and do the cube (with moderate success). i also tried a visualization (ala ron jeffries) excercise. but it flunked a bit.

    i have to say she sat on an adjacent couch instead of the same one and i felt awkward escalating kino beyond light touch. I also somewhat failed at dhv i think.

    tried also evolution phase shift, didnt even click on the hair pull, she refused to let me bite her arm. we talked a lot from there but i could never close the deal (tried the triangulation, which i didnt seem to be able to pull for a second time in a week). offered to take her home but she said she was tired and went back with a friend of hers.

    got a lame #close that im almost ashamed about.


    i saw many 10's tonight. and now i know that i will never stop till those girls are eating from my hand. my drive has become 10x.

    however, i'd like to know how i can improve

    so far

    i dont know what to do if the girl is indifferent/apathetic after an opener. how do you go back from that?

    i just suck at closing!, it's easier if you get the doggy bowl look, but with mild IoI's it drives me crazy


    on the positive side, my aa is consistently going down, im starting to not give a fark about much. (thou i do care about wasting my time like i did today)

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    Default Re: Field report - first sarge after reading pua material

    Yeah, good your aa is diminishing. Many guys will never even get past that.

    But you asked how to turn it around if it isn't going well. I think David DeAngelo is right when he says that when you're dealing with relationships between men and women, it's hard to go back and do anything. Sometimes you're talking to a woman and "it's on." And then it's easy and everything goes smooth. But sometimes you're talking and it's just not, and there's usually not much of a way to go back and change it. I think it's better to focus on making sure the interaction is fun and natural from the beginning.

    Keep on trying. You're on the mastery curve and it's just a matter of time until you get a breakthrough and have a great success.

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    Default Re: Field report - first sarge after reading pua material

    you know, i also noticed, in the two girls i talked for a while, that they were completely tired afterwards. maybe its natural cause it was late, but i could go on for hours, and it seemed like the girls were wasted. maybe they spent so much energy in the conversation... but i didnt see that

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    Default Re: Field report - first sarge after reading pua material

    I think I generally take acting tired as an IOD. Or yeah, maybe they were drunk.


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