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Thread: opening 2/3+ sets

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    Default opening 2/3+ sets

    this might sound weird but i have trouble opening sets with 2 or more females. In a way is like picking a fight with 2+ more guys, like theres no way i can entertain 3 woman at once.

    if i find an isolated woman i can usually engage and sustain, not so much with groups

    what advice would you give me?

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    Default Re: opening 2/3+ sets

    Are you conveying confidence, using appropriate openers, dhv, routines that involve the group rather than the target, making use of the props and weapons at your disposal?
    Keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars

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    Default Re: opening 2/3+ sets

    i think the openers were okayish, my main flaws i guess were dhv and closing.

    any help with that?

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    Default Re: opening 2/3+ sets

    high 5 here * right hand

    good!

    high 5 here * left hand

    high 5 here * points chest

    lol just go talk to them as a group man, its easy ask them all one question or say 1 statement about all of them and move forward there.

    iv approached a group of 8 and just complimented them while pointing at each one of them today.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 12-11-2012 at 07:04 AM.

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    Default Re: opening 2/3+ sets

    I like to approach indirectly with groups. If there is one target then I won't pay her any attention or angle my body towards her early on. I'll initially start with one or more people between myself and the target until I can gradually reposition towards her and finally next to her. Go from a gap between you till you are engaging her and another simultaneously and finally just her. There are a million ways to open but go with something that will get girls chatty (opinion openers, celebrity gossip, etc). I always wait for the target to engage me first but talk to her if she hasn't before you leave. You have to drive the conversation. Be playful with everyone there and bounce from person to person to keep it moving. When you get to your target you will seem fun and social.

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    Default Re: opening 2/3+ sets

    You better get used to approaching groups of women. Its rare a girl is by herself. When you approach a lone girl, more than likly her enterage will be comming soon.

    Personally I like all female sets, the man and girl sets are the real sticky ones I haven't opened to.

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    Default Re: opening 2/3+ sets

    When I approach a group of girls I like to say you look like your out to have a good time. If when I say this they are already crazy I leave it at that. If they are looking as if they are maybe a little bored I follow with "but you don't seem to be achieving your goal." or if their being silent I prefer "but you don't seem as if your out to get crazy. I've had some pretty solid responses. Used from 2 sets to 7 sets of just girls.

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    Default Re: opening 2/3+ sets

    2 sets are the worst I find. If you open successfully and get locked in, it's gonna be a lot harder to Isolate than in any larger amount set. No one likes being alone, and no one wants to be the one doing the leaving alone so it becomes a conundrum for the girl.
    Sometimes the other girl will excuse herself(if she's socially attuned) and then that's the green light but at others, she will just stay there staring at you picking up her friend. In those cases, it's nice to have a wingman.

    3+ sets though are perfect. You don't even need to open the group. You can if you want, but you can literally go in, open direct, scoop the girl you're interested in, bounce her back to the bar, dancefloor or outside for a smoke. The conversation can continue without her so there's no guilt about anyone being left alone.

    Mixed sets are easier though I find. You can generally tell whether the guys are just AFC friends, meaning the girls are usually dying to get approached by the awesomeness that you are. Especially so since mixed sets tend to be the ones that are opened the least.


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