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    Default Feeling awkward during Kino

    Hey guys,

    Recently I've been focusing on bringing a whole bunch of Alpha traits into my life. My self-confidence and value is sky high, I've been commanding more attention in a group setting but, there's one thing that I just can't seem to get right: Kino.

    Don't get me wrong, I use it to great success with guys to subtly increase my social value (leader of men) however, I seem to freeze up when it comes to touching women. It seems awkward, and if I feel like its awkward, no doubt so will she.

    I can use Kino (and feel natural about it) while doing a cold read but, in normal conversation, my hands lie uselessly at my sides.

    Do you know any good ways to initiate Kino into a regular conversation without it feeling awkward?

    Thanks guys,
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    Default Re: Feeling awkward during Kino

    thats why Kino Escalation works great, esp with compliance tests given frequently, if the tests go well, you have no reason to feel awkward because shes fine with it. otherwise the red baron has a great thread on Kino
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Feeling awkward during Kino

    Quote Originally Posted by manunited000 View Post
    Hey guys,

    Recently I've been focusing on bringing a whole bunch of Alpha traits into my life. My self-confidence and value is sky high, I've been commanding more attention in a group setting but, there's one thing that I just can't seem to get right: Kino.

    Don't get me wrong, I use it to great success with guys to subtly increase my social value (leader of men) however, I seem to freeze up when it comes to touching women. It seems awkward, and if I feel like its awkward, no doubt so will she.

    I can use Kino (and feel natural about it) while doing a cold read but, in normal conversation, my hands lie uselessly at my sides.

    Do you know any good ways to initiate Kino into a regular conversation without it feeling awkward?

    Thanks guys,
    First of all, i'm glad that u know that if u feel awkward touching her it's gonna be awkward.
    Secondly, u can't touch her if u're Fluff talking. U can touch her to command her attention before a routine or if u want to move her to another spot. That's it.
    Go to youtube and watch a 6 part series of videos called Kino Escalation by lovedrop (or something like that)
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    Default Re: Feeling awkward during Kino

    A nice tip I've discovered is that you can really help yourself if you pick a date location where Kino is easier and more natural to instigate.

    Sat across a dinner table makes it very hard!

    I took a girl to top golf at the weekend. Really good date, I was teaching her how to play, very easy kino she practically invited it. Plus I had fun with it with stuff like "legs apart, put your bum a little further back... thanks that was for my benefit; now I'll teach you a golfing stance " She laughed and then turned round and kissed me.

    Even the zoo is easier.... you can place a hand on the back and point at an animal, its natural and easy to get close.


    Also read Red Baron's post on Kino, very helpful

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    Default Re: Feeling awkward during Kino

    I find that once the initial barrier is broken, its easier to do more of it.

    I started wearing a ring. So when i notice a girl wearing a ring, and its cool, it automatically invites hand holding when commenting about it.

    Hold her hand and look at it. Look into her eyes if u have any comments to give. If she pulls her hand away pull it back and tell her your not done looking.

    If she insists on pulling, away give her a small neg for it saying that she must be the nervous type.

    IF you dont think its going well... YOUR ring is the parachute. You can say you were just starting to get into wearing rings and u bought this one for blah blah (sites sometimes give descriptions for rings... like this stands for that etc. Use them!). Needless to say the ring you wear should be interesting lol. This story will get them in the frame that'ih he is interesting" not "hes a touchy creep." Again, if its NOT going well.

    After all the you holding her hand, her holding yours, good eye contact while doing so, it should feel less awkward and she may even start Kino on u.
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