so you want a girl to go to dinner with you eh?
but what exactly do you say to not get rejected, after all you really want her to go out on a "date" with you.
but the delima is simple if you ask her "will you go out with me?" she is most likely to turn you down, simply on the basis that you want her to go out with you and she doesn't know why. now i'm not saying you need to explain yourself, but you do need to change how you say it.
instead of making a question like "will you go to dinner with me?" wich has to be answered with a yes or a no, you need to make a direct statement. you need her to know that you find her interesting, but you aren't taking her out just so you can sleep with her.
when i ask a girl out i always start by stating what i want to do with her (no pun intended) i tell her things like "i'm going to the theatre with some friends to watch the new ____ movie, i want you to come with me"
notice how i said it, i stated my intentions and simply told her i wanted her to tag along.
if she questions why i want her to come with me the answer is always the same, "i just thought you'd be cool to hang out with, but i could be wrong, your not one of those girls who.......(insert some charactoristic about her so it serves as a false disqualifier)"
by doing this you stay "under the radar" and keep her pursuing you. any time she resists, just switch the convorsation to get her qualifying.
however i'm not saying you should just keep asking her out until she says yes, if a girl says no, no means no. cut her loose if she won't go out with you (she's waisting your precious time)
with flakes i give them 2 strikes, if a girl flakes more than twice she isn't attracted enough for you to get anywhere with her anyways.
so to sum it all up, when asking a girl out make your intentions clear, and tell her what you want to do and that you want her to come with you and do just that. always stick with your plan once you've made it and if she resists get her qualifying again.
good luck asking girls out