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    Default Keep screwing up dates!

    Ok I have managed a number of full closes but these are normally from clubs where talking is at a minimum.

    my problem with dates is that I run out of stuff to talk about and then panic and its really awkward... I have no idea how to move past this.

    My Kino skills aren't half bad, and I normally manage to generate attraction by teasing and flirting but I really want to learn how to prevent those awkward pauses! its killing my game.

    I'm improving but its a very slow process, I run a few dhv stories and then re-use the ones that work and modify or discard the ones that don't. I also think my text game is far stronger than in person, I think I back away from flirting for some reason ... so fucking annoyed at myself

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    Default Re: Keep screwing up dates!

    If I ever run out of things to say I use 'nouning' which basically means when your talking to her pick up on the nouns in her answers and build on them.
    So for example if you asked where she went in the summer and she answers
    'ohh, I went to France and went skiing in the alps'
    You then have 2 or 3 topics to build on like
    'ahh Iv been to France, I absolutely love French food........etc'
    So basically you just find the hooks in her conversation and pull on them

    Hope this helps

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    Default Re: Keep screwing up dates!

    Thanks, that seems like a good technique... obvious when you know.

    Thing is I would prefer not to have to learn routines but I might have to at this rate...

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    Default Re: Keep screwing up dates!

    People watching is also a good backup plan. "Look at that couple over there, they're so uncomfortable. Must be a first date. It's a good thing we click so well".

    Look at funny things on your way to meet up. A funny store sign that you can say "I saw this store and I totally imagined you trying on this funny dress".
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    Default Re: Keep screwing up dates!

    u don't have to always talk... u have

    1) esp
    2) magic
    3) stories
    etc - to rely on should u fall short.

    "nouning" is excellent as many daygamers talk abt using it.


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