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    TYGAS is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default My friends keep stealing my spotlight

    So... I'm trying to game this one girl but every time I get to see her I'm with my friends. My one friend keeps grabbing her attention and steals my spotlight. What can I do to counter act this and get the girl more focused on me? And also what can I do to eliminate him as a threat?

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    Default Re: My friends keep stealing my spotlight

    Well if he's your friend and he knows you have intentions on gaming her he should let you do so, if he was not your friend it would be different but this is not the case. Honestly you should'nt have to compete for the same girl. Who ever goes at her first gets the spotlight period. Theres way to many women for it to have to go down like that. just my opinion though.
    If someone knows they are being chased they are in the drivers seat and will usually take advantage

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    Default Re: My friends keep stealing my spotlight

    Act like an alpha. You can find lots of material about AMOG

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    Default Re: My friends keep stealing my spotlight

    Thanks for the help! But he is not really my friend... We dont really get on well it's just that my close friend is also a good friend of him so it's not like he will care about taking the girl from me.

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    Default Re: My friends keep stealing my spotlight

    Do something that will certainly snag her attention. Make a joke, comment, etc. Help her to wherever she is going. Throw yourself in there, but keep it smart. Worst case scenario, your "friend" keeps stealing your spotlight, you move on to another girl, or look for another time to engage her when he is not there. Good Luck! Keep your head high!

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    Default Re: My friends keep stealing my spotlight

    @Tygas

    let ur friends try... if u know they're very AFC, the better.

    this way, when u r polite and nice ---- and u begin ur PU, u will shine.

    also, she is not the only one.... do not make her out to be "the one" ok.^^

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    Default Re: My friends keep stealing my spotlight

    Quote Originally Posted by YOKiTran View Post
    @Tygas

    let ur friends try... if u know they're very AFC, the better.

    this way, when u r polite and nice ---- and u begin ur PU, u will shine.


    also, she is not the only one.... do not make her out to be "the one" ok.^^
    Good point. If you know that they are AFC, see where they went wrong (if they go wrong), learn from their mistakes, and take it from there.

    If you know they have game, try to become the Alpha of the group.

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    Default Re: My friends keep stealing my spotlight

    @Tygas

    let me give u a story

    my best bud n me study PU for our vacation to his hometown.

    on the vacation, he felt the need to not use PU at all because he had history with girls that he phoned up.

    well, he got very handsy with ALL of them... he just spoke to them like a friend and went in.

    now i did not actively game any his girls - i just did some chick crack for practice... i was reserved, social, and polite....

    he got zero of 5
    i KNOW 2 of 5 wanted me

    so let them act like fools... u have a game plan.


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