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Thread: When to stop negging?

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    Default When to stop negging?

    Once you get a set open, you neg right away, then maybe a few more times while you click with the girl. Now, after maybe getting a #, K or F close... do you still keep negging? when i do it i usually feel like a jackass, just being mean for no reason.

    what do you guys do?


    another question: how about negs as openers?

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    Default Re: When to stop negging?

    You don't need to use negs much at all.
    Once or twice is plenty.... otherwise you DO come off like an @sshole.

    Some guys use negs waaaaay too much. AND.. sometimes they don't use them properly.

    So definitely don't keep using them once you've gotten her attention.


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    Default Re: When to stop negging?

    There's a thread here that talks about how to be alpha and breaks up status in 3 different categories.
    1) alpha
    2) asshole
    3) beta

    If you neg too much you'll fall into the asshole status, which is above beta but below alpha. So while asshole isn't the worst you have to always push yourself to do better. Substitute some of those negs in with a a sarcastic or witty remark. Think alpha not asshole.
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    Default Re: When to stop negging?

    Teasing and flirting is wayyyy better than negging. You don't need to put a girl down you just need to show your alpha enough that your not afraid to take the risk that they'll take something the wrong way.....if that makes sense

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    Default Re: When to stop negging?

    Treat negs to correct a behavior. If she interrupts, acts rude, is boring, etc, then neg her on it to correct the behavior and show you don't approve of it. Negs are really over used and come across as very offensive when not used in a context. I've crashed and burned with that before. If a HB is friendly and receptive then just enjoy it and don't neg her unless she asks for it.

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    Default Re: When to stop negging?

    NEGS should only be used on a lady that has put herself on a pedestal. and by that I mean if she is one of those bitchy girls who looks down on everyone. That would be an appropriate time to neg her. Guys think negging is the greatest thing around. Why do you have to knock a girl down to be more on your level. If you are Alpha Male enough then your level is already above hers. Granted there are times when negging is called for but even then they should be used within limits. I never got the idea of why guys use negs constantly. To me that shows a lack of confidence in their abilities to dhv to a point where a lady is truly interested in them.

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    Default Re: When to stop negging?

    Dont neg unless she's on a pedestal. Otherwise, dhv DHV DHV DHV DHV. But don't be self centered. Thats what I've learned so far lol.

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    Default Re: When to stop negging?

    good post.

    i normally neg playfully only....
    example:
    ur a beautiful gurl to me... only if ur feet weren't the size of grenades
    (it's already established that her toes are normal)

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    Default Re: When to stop negging?

    neg to show a slight dominance and to reassert yourself as the man. I rarely do them, I normally tease/Push-Pull. I do probably 1 neg per set but they're normally little ones like "Hey, I'm speaking, it's rude to interrupt" or "Argh, you just spat in my face" said calmly and with a smile. It works a treat, makes them realise you're not some nice guy and an actual man (which is what most girls want).
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