Re: Bandit- The Importance of Being a Natural
After reading this and have conversations with friends last night who I actually do care about and I am grateful to have in my life. I decided to actually write a statement of what I want out of all of this and what I have gained and how to further myself in it. Having a direction is good and without direction we as humans are lost, anyway here is what I have written and even though I'm still learning I believe this is worth reading everyday for myself.
What do I want?
What I want is to go out and approach as many times as I can but not to make it my life. Go to a club and gain numbers then find someone I want to take home. There needs to be more conviction and there needs to be a point where I wouldn’t be afraid to throw myself into the deep end and there shouldn’t be this fear, this fear is going away and I will shove that fear out. Just do it, it’s not hard, no one will judge you if you fail and if you do all you will do is learn to do it better next time.
demonstrate higher value, gain social proof, and make friends with people you don’t even like because you can make them leave when you want them to but they will serve you in the short term. Remember this is your reality. Be happy with what you have and don’t take shit. Be the dominant, be the one who’s always in charge. Treat people how they should be treated. If they don’t like what’s happening then you don’t need their approval, just carry on because you know you’re doing it right.
You have that cocky-funny persona; you know how to Disarm obstacles, you know how to Push-Pull, you know how to lead. You have practised body language for so long that it has become natural to you, the same applies for touching. If you feel that a girl is hooked to you then you have the freedom to do as you please. If you fuck up you fuck up, nothing bad is going to happen and there are plenty more women out there to practise on.
Be yourself but be your best self. Don’t settle for mediocrity. Some nights will be bad, some nights will be awesome. Accept that sometimes it’s just a matter of chance. Have that passion and charisma because you know you have that and it can be replicated. You are the best out there and any woman who shuts you off is an idiot and has blown it with you. Have fun and play, after all it is just a game. I would much rather be a one hit wonder than a phony.
P.S. I didn't mean to hi-jack this thread. I just wanted to share how I felt on this whole matter.
I am only responsible for what I say, not what you understand - The proverb of a true activist.
I'm not driven by fear, I'm driven by Danger