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Thread: What to do when girl switches dinner date for lunch?

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    Question What to do when girl switches dinner date for lunch?

    So I met this girl online, and she asked me out for coffee to "talk more", after the first message I sent her. Pretty cool.

    Unfortunately that didn't work out due to conflicting schedules, but she gave me her number, we text a bit, I called her, and proposed a couple times I'm free for dinner.

    However, she's now been insisting on lunch instead.

    I don't want to be friendzones or businesszoned (there could be a business connotation to the date). What to do?

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    Default Re: What to do when girl switches dinner date for lunch?

    What's wrong with lunch? Take her somewhere next to where you live, on a day where none of you are working. Find some excuse to bounce her back to your place(some sculpture you wanna show her if she's indicated interest in art, etc), and escalate.

    She will never expect that, and we all know how exciting the unexpected can be

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    Default Re: What to do when girl switches dinner date for lunch?

    You don't want a dinner on a first date anyways, she did you a favor haha, dinner's are for late game when your more involved, don't do that right off the bat. Coffee/lunch keep it quick 1 hr or less and then set up a 2nd date. Too easy

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    Default Re: What to do when girl switches dinner date for lunch?

    Quote Originally Posted by Shortman View Post
    You don't want a dinner on a first date anyways, she did you a favor haha, dinner's are for late game when your more involved, don't do that right off the bat. Coffee/lunch keep it quick 1 hr or less and then set up a 2nd date. Too easy
    yes. Use the short lunch date to build the attraction levels between the two of you and to get her thinking about you romantically. (look up cocky comedy) Find out things about her that could help you seduce her on the next, longer date. (Look up eliciting values.)

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    Default Re: What to do when girl switches dinner date for lunch?

    You order a nice roast beef sandwich with swiss cheese and sauteed onions, maybe a side of soup and a nice cold beer, one of the good one's like fat tire, and proceed to eat said meal with or without utensils, depending on how you eat sandwiches (I don't judge). Then, seeing as how you've been gaming her this whole time and you've got her eating out of your hand by now, you find some half-assed excuse to head back to your place and enjoy a little "Afternoon Delight"............ .then you have sex with her.

    Stop freaking out about dumb sh!t.
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    Default Re: What to do when girl switches dinner date for lunch?

    Well, she proposed lunch on a day that neither of us could just take off, so I'll go with just treating the lunch as a quick "get to know her" date.

    From what I've seen, meeting during daytime signals friend zone, while meeting during evening (coffee, dinner, whatever), signals dating potential.

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    Default Re: What to do when girl switches dinner date for lunch?

    It's not when you have the date, it's what you do when you're having it. It doesn't matter if it's brunch, dinner, or fourth meal at taco bell, if you walk into the situation with the mentality "She's going to be all over me by the time this is done" you'll be fine. Friendzone is not an option. You're job is to make sure she knows that without you saying anything. You say it in how you act.
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