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Thread: How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

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    Default How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

    I was going to meet with a girl tomorrow but this suddenly happened:

    Today
    21:51
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    I'm going to have to ask for a rain check on our catch up tomorrow. my sister and I have both started vomiting tonight

    21:55
    ME

    Well thats not good. We will have to reschedule for some other time then.

    21:56
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    yeah I'm really sorry. we'll find another time I'm sure

    22:21
    ME

    Well I hope you feel better soon.

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    Default Re: How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

    you cant tbh.

    My advice is to not contact her for a few days and then if you haven't heard back, re-engage with a light non-question based text.

    I use a story that genuinely happend to me at work.

    "my boss just farted in front of a client then blamed it on me! what the hell!"

    always gets a smile

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    Default Re: How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

    Agree with above. If you have built enough attraction then more than likely she will initiate.

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    Default Re: How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

    Yeah totally, I tend to have a two 'dodgy excuse' rule, where if I get flaked on twice and I'm not sure if they are genuine then I stop talking to her unless she initiates and wants a D2

    Linking x

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    Default Re: How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

    Dude she is vomiting. Why disappear for two days lol? There's no way of knowing if she's lying so might as well take it as truth.

    If this is the first time then let it go. You can't hold onto all your "cool" points. Hit her up tomorrow asking if she's alright, then tell her thank you for not getting you sick and ruining your date with Megan Fox this week.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

    Thanks for your replies. I will ask her how she is feeling tomorrow.

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    Default Re: How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

    Sorry but I never heard that happen to anyone before sounds like BS. I wouldnt ask her how she felt since you already said "Well I hope you feel better soon".

    I would give her a week and then re-approach her in a playful friendly way. Dont ask her out until she hints on hanging out. You already put yourself out there its her turn.
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    Default Re: How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

    I agree don't ask her how she's feeling, thats beta. Open in a friendly non-question-orientated way!

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    Default Re: How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

    Well I talked to her and we agreed on a new time. I think she was telling the truth.

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    Default Re: How can I tell if this is a genuine excuse or not?

    Asking a woman how she is feeling is NOT beta.

    Doing it in the context of that you constantly blow her phone up and being at her beck and call, is.

    But if you've been a jokester and/or "too cool for school" type thinking then switching it up can be a pleasant surprise for her and you've just created an opportunity to escalate and not let things get stale between you two.

    Don't just look at the pixels gentlemen, but look at the whole picture.

    P.S. I don't know why I just used gentlemen. I heard a British accent in my head.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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