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    jackstraw98 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default confusing signals, iois then doesnt follow thru

    I work with this girl. I kind of had oneitis for her for a bit, nothing was really happening, so kind of moved on. Friday, she asks me what I'm doing and that she's not doing anything special and was like call me. I actually had this weird allergy thing going on and said I was probably not doing anything but maybe if you have something fun in mind I'll come, you call me. never called, whatever.

    anyway, this whole conversation she's grabbing my hand, playing with it, play hitting it, and of course im reciprocating. (now I do live in Colombia, where people are more touchy feely, but cmon). she also made a comment about me and another girl like "oh you are a cute couple, maybe she likes you" and made comments about how she knew I liked her....I responded I think you are dreaming. today we were talking and i put my hand on her upper arm as I was saying somethign to Kino and she was like "oh i thought you were gonna kiss me." again I said I think you're dreaming. (for context I did go out on one real date with this girl a few months ago and failed on the k close, she said she wanted to go slow and then blew off a couple invitations to hang out)

    seems like she wanted to come back into the picture from the backburner but sending real mixed signals. my thought is to continue playing down my interest and turn the tables and make jokes on her pursuing me. she was in charge of finding out who was coming to the end of year party and I pretty much was like well I'll come but only if you don't try to get me drunk and nothings going to happen between us. (I hope it does, I'm going back to the states for a few weeks and would love to know I'm coming back to some possible wet p). do i have the right idea? advice?

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    Default Re: confusing signals, iois then doesnt follow thru

    Sounds like you are holding you own quite well man. She is chasing you because you are not showing her any interest. Now be cocky/funny when you do this. Always smile, be playful.

    When she calls you out on other girls, make her a bit jealous. Do not deny liking another woman. Tell her you think this other girl is interesting, and leave it at that. Good job on the Kino and all else. Keep it up until she breaksdown, sounds like she will man.

    BY NO MEANS should you jump through her hoops just yet. You almost did by telling her if she had something fun you would come....Control the frame.

    Good job overall.

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    Default Re: confusing signals, iois then doesnt follow thru

    fair enough..i jumped thru this girl's hoops once before, essentially i was friendzoned and kind of have given her the cold shoulder....don't think im out of the hot water yet but seems like i may get a second run.....thinking about asking her out to eat tonight, im going to the place anyway and I have to stop by her office to see her....if it happens will definitely try to lay a kiss on her again....in fact think i may pull a thing i read on here, asking her if she would like to kiss me

    we'll see, i was crazy for this girl for a minute but had kind of written it off but hadn't completely thrown in the towel

    one quick question, keep up the cocky funny/joking play hard to get and say something like "listen we're only going as friends so don't get any ideas...."? you know i was thinking of pulling the i want to know what makes you smile/happy/wet bombshell on this girl too, im pretty sure i can deliver it in spanish effectively

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    Default Re: confusing signals, iois then doesnt follow thru

    Do not mention only as friends. Just let it flow. Try turning the tables on her, but with flirting and a nice smile. "you know you and I could never work out...." with Kino


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