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Thread: she doesn't know how to play / tease

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    Cool she doesn't know how to play / tease

    yo guys, i was talking to this chick she's a few years younger than me, anyway she was all good in person responded well to alot of things (no i didn't Kino - for the sole purpose of not wanting to start anything because of an injury - maybe the reason?)

    anyway i had her telling me i was funny, ioi's were there but when i teased her or did playful sh1t it's like she didn't understand i mean for example i called her a jerk and then she says it's a male adjective and i was like -____- facepalm, i was expecting an offhand complement --> among other playful stuff

    ultimately my question is if a chick doesn't know how to be witty or hasn't come across a guy like that before, what's the best way to go, being lame and boring seems like it would interest her :/ or maybe she's too nice to tease me back?

    thoughts welcome (y)

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    Default Re: she doesn't know how to play / tease

    Playful teasing definitely comes with age. If she is too young then she will most likely be the type of girl who has only ever received compliments her whole life. She isn't used to someone saying something negative (albeit playfully) about her. If she gets on the offensive because of something you say, you could respond with "I'm sorry I must of mistaken you for someone with a sense of humor" she more then likey will try validate after that and you could move onto more playfu banter. I'm sure you don't do this but be careful with how you say it. It's not necessarily what you say but more about how you say it. If its in person throw in a cheeky little smirk that keeps her wondering is this guy being serious right now or is he joking. Over text it is very difficult because your body language, tone of voice and the method of delivery cannot be portrayed as well as it could in person.

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    Default Re: she doesn't know how to play / tease

    Lol

    She's probably too dumb/ditsy to get it. If she doesn't understand your tease or sarcasm then follow up with more teasing and sarcasm, and bascially don't say anything non-teasing until she starts to catch on that you're teasing her, then when she asks "are you making fun of me?" respond something like "yes, and I have been since I called you a jerk." xD
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    Default Re: she doesn't know how to play / tease

    haha yeah i pretty much told her she lost her sense of humour (Supremo *nods*), i included a sad face and a 'comeon!' as in i'm disappointed and then continued being playful, and eventually it came out, and now she's dishing the sh1t back at me (y)

    one of my chick friends who knows her said that she probably wasn't comfortable with me yet (not sure on that one, but it's possible) and i'm pretty sure she hasn't really been teased or played with cause she's religious and her family is all 'proper' so yeah these 2 things make sense and i'll keep them in mind for the future (y)

    thanks for the help guys! much appreciated

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    Default Re: she doesn't know how to play / tease

    She could be a very strong investor - denier (panadora's box) which usually require comfort building before arousal/attraction, it's just her nature and her perception of men. Build comfort but not enough that you no-sex zone yourself from her.
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    Default Re: she doesn't know how to play / tease

    yeah she's definitely (at this point NDI), it makes sense and i'm surprised i didn't relate it to pandoras straight away, it's a pretty good system haha yeah i'm building comfort at the moment (y)

    all in all i was just curious because eventually i know i'll face a similar chick, and i'd rather have the problem now and learn, while not running into it again in the future


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